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Were it more available, it would be quite controversial as it is WAY out of the mainstream. Greenberg is writing about his own experiences as a parent, teacher, and former child. Each chapter is devoted to a different topic. Some examples follow:
The Decision to Have a Child - Don't have children until you're ready to take the responsibility.
Nursing - You're a mammal. Mammals nurse their young.
The Years One to Four - This is the true adolescence and should be treated as such. These years will be difficult and you must be strong to get through them effectively.
Ages Four and Up - Older children have all the same reasoning capability as you do, and should be treated accordingly, with freedom, respect, AND responsibility.
Sleeping - Sleep with your kids, and don't force them to go to sleep when they don't want to. Everyone sleeps and will sleep eventually.
Eating - Provide a variety of healthy foods. Your child will take it from there.
This is just a smattering of Greenberg's childrearing philosophy, which he presents unapologetically in a readable, intellegent format. Perhaps because this book was not printed to be a bestseller, he does not try to pander or appeal to everyone. Not everyone will like this book. But it's a GEM for parents who want to raise self-reliant, compassionate kids.
Incidentally, I've met Greenberg's son, and he seems to have turned out pretty well!
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In the first half of the book Homma Sensei gives a very detailed and convincing account of how he came to the martial arts (and aikido in particular), and how this has shaped his practice as a teacher. He gives many easily-recognizable examples of conversations he's had with parents who want to enroll their kids in his classes. These would be comical if not true, but they serve to illustrate many of the wrong reasons parents want kids to participate in martial arts.
In the second half, he gives examples of many of the exercises children in his aikido classes perform, accompanied by black-and-white line drawings. These would be very helpful for parents with a child in aikido (as a way to understand what the children are doing, and to help them practice at home), but certainly can *not* substitute for the expert guidance of a certified instructor.
Interestingly, even though I bought this book [ostensibly] for the day my son might show an interest in coming to the dojo with me, it was very useful for my own aikido training. Homma Sensei stresses personal responsibility, as well as the "right" reasons for studying aikido, and I found this refreshing as a beginner myself. [It was also useful, in reading another of his books (Aikido for Life), as he gives a rather detailed account of his own study of aikido in this one -- which helps one understand why he feels the way he does about certain aspects of training.]
Highly recommended.
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Buttry, a clergyman of the American Baptist Church has written a most readable and informative book on the nature of Christian peacemaking. Each chapter begins with a personal story in which the author or a family member has been involved in an experience that sets the stage for the subject of the chapter. Rev. Buttry writes not only as an observer of the scene, but as one who has been personally involved in discovering that Christian peacemaking is practical.
Buttry grounds his thesis on the biblical record of the teachings of Jesus and lays out the foundations for nonviolent response to human conflict.
He recounts numerous instances likely unknown to the average person, in which nonviolent responses to conflict have been successfully employed in real-life situations. He relates the well-known struggles of Mahatma Gandhi, Martin Luther King, Nelson Mandela and other luminaries in their respective areas of conflict. He reveals roles played by less well known persons, where the nonviolent approach contributed significantly to successful resolution of the problem.
In all fairness, the author concedes that nonviolence and conflict resolution are not panaceas for dealing with all the ills of a conflicted world. Many heroic efforts fall far short of "living happily ever after". Nevertheless Buttry quotes Bishop Francisco Claver, leader of the nonviolent movement in the Philippines in a statement that seems to summarize his own position: "Active nonviolence is not just a tactic to be used to achieve an end, to be discarded if it does not achieve that end effectively. It is a way of life, an ethic, a spirituality, something that goes beyond the mere utilitarian and practical."
This book is meant for the reader who is willing to consider the possibility that nonviolence based Jesus' teachings may be a superior way to deal with human conflict or to the person who is looking for hard evidence to support the contention that Jesus' way is a practical alternative to violence in this modern era.