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"A normal 18-year-old girl was very distressed over the fact that she had not shown any evidence of breast development.
Her father was a physician, and at the age of 12 he had loaded her up with every kind of hormone possible. Yet there was no breast development of any sort; still none by 13, or 14, or 15. He finally quit the treatments and just gave up hope.
By the age of 18, the girl was making an extremely shizoid adjustment, withdrawing completely. She had an extremely disagreeable mother and she just hated her mother thoroughly.
So her doctor-father sent her to Erickson, asking him, "What can you do to keep my daughter from becoming schizophrenic?"
Well, it took Erickson about an hour to get the girl to tell him herself that she had no breast development whatsoever. She did agree, however, to go into a trance, and so he spent a couple more hours putting her into a deep trance very cautiously, very gently, very indirectly.
Then while she was in a deep trance state he explained to her how ignorant a man is about what a breast feels like; that he can't have any idea of how it feels to grow a breast; that he can't know what a breast feels like during a menstrual period; that he cannot really know what a woman's nipple feels like during menstruation.
And he spent a good deal of time presenting that sort of idea to her very repetitiously.
Next he explained in a similarly repetitious manner that since she was a girl, somehow or other she must have the right nerves, the right blood vessels with which to grow breasts.
He told her that when she was alone in the privacy of her room - she would someway, somehow, get a tremendous surging feeling in the breast area; and suddenly, somehow, her rudimentary nipples would feel warm, and she would have the feeling that something was happening.
He told her very honestly that he didn't know what that feeling was, but that she could find out; and that she could get that tremendous surging feeling, that growing feeling or whatever it was, and then drift off to sleep very comfortably.
Erickson saw the girl once a week for two months, at which time she had very well developed breasts."
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In addition to the slightly more than seventy-five operas discussed, he has also included sections on how to enjoy an opera, a history of opera, and a discussion of ballet in opera.
As I do before attending a Shakesperean play, (see my review of SHAKESPEARE A TO Z.) I find it helpful to prepare ahead of time by reading about the opera I am about to attend. Cross's book is fairly detailed, leading you through all the significant actions, and accompanying music, of each act in the order that they occur. I often supplement this reading with shorter, more succinct discussions in other references. There is a real value to owning multiple references on the same subject.
Included in this book are most of the operas that are in the normal reportoire of any contemporary opera company. Only the newer and/or experimental operas written in the latter part of the twentieth century are missing, and they are not often performed.
In his chapter on enjoying the opera, he states, as I did above, that for full enjoyment of an opera, you need to already understand it. Understanding, according to Cross, can come from some, or all, of the following: Read a libretto. Read the story. Listen to the music either on a recording or in an instrumental transcription.
He also reminds the reader that opera plots are often weak and illogical. Some are filled with obscure symbolism, some based on legend, and some just plain puzzling. The music is what is important.
He suggests other, more extensive, forms of preparation that are probably too time consuming for the contemporary opera goer, but I agree with him that some sort of preparation will certainly enhance your enjoyment.
The last two sections of the book, one on the history of opera from the sixteenth century to the present, and the other on the use of ballet in opera, are more appropriately read than summarized. These sections are interesting and are readable on a stand alone basis.
The bulk of the book, exclusive of the last three sections, is a reference and is most useful for the purpose of preparing yourself for an opera performance that you are about to attend.
This is an invaluable reference and belongs on the shelf of any opera goer or potential opera goer.
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