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Lorraine Seeley Buell--Author of Shipmates
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A tested and thought through program of 13 weeks that will bring partners together in a profound way, without esoteric ritual. I give this book as a wedding present in addition to anything else I might want to send a new couple on their journey with
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"Invisible Cage" is not like her autobiographies: it is written like a manual for people dealing with EA, either in themselves or in a friend/relative/partner. It is organized into tiny sub-chapters with appropriate headings, with an index in the back for quickly finding information on a particular subject. For each, she describes what the external behaviors are like, the internal emotions/logic causing it, and how to help the EA person feel safe so they don't have to resort to that behavior.
Even if you have EA and have studied it in yourself for years, as I have, this book is invaluable. Williams has researched it not only in herself, but in many other autistics. I was surprised to find many behaviors that I was doing without realizing it, and *very* happy to finally have reasons for some things I could never explain. As EA is rare even in adults with autism, I've felt like a lone freak for a long time, so it was wonderful to finally realize that my brain really is being logical and I'm not just mentally ill or a psycho monster or something.
If you have EA, I highly recomend not only buying yourself a copy of "Cage", but giving one to someone in your life that you think you might be able to trust enough to work with. That way they can see your behavior for what it is and hopefully help you gain that trusting bond that is so hard for us to manage.
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