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Marian, aged not quite seventeen and not out yet, is nevertheless the only 'sensible' person in her family household. It's a year after her father's death, which occurred just before Christmas the previous year, and this year she's determined to have a *happy* Christmas. After all, her family is practically bankrupt and they may have to move out of their home in the New Year.
Then her elder brother, Percy, arrives home for Christmas with two strange gentlemen in tow. One is intended as a suitor for Marian's sister Ariadne; he's wealthy, despite being obnoxious. The other is Lord Ingraham, an earl, badly scarred from a burn and clearly hiding from friends and family as a result.
Marian, with her penchant for healing sick and injured creatures, is immediately drawn to Ingraham and wants to help him; she provides him with a salve to lessen the pain of his burn, and in doing so sees the man whom she'd been warned by her brother was stiff and top-lofty actually *smile*.
Gil, as she comes to call him and think of him, joins in her amusement and seeks ways to rid the house of Ariadne's suitor. He defends her to Percy when her brother disapproves of her often unladylike behaviour. Marian is, of course, still strictly speaking, in the schoolroom, and - as other characters later remind her and Gil - is 'of the infantry'. Gil treats her sometimes as an equal, finding himself confiding in her, and sometimes as an amusing child; his most common nickname for her is 'brat'.
The story is told only from Marian's point of view, which is a fascinating device, because Gil's interest in her - not as a child, but as a woman he is falling in love with - is clearly apparent to the reader, but not to Marian. Charmingly naive as she is with regard to relationships, she misses his hints and doesn't understand his references to changing his mind about marriage and needing to speak to her brother. To the reader, Gil's intentions towards Marian are clear, and it's also clear that, in a scene we aren't privy to, he must have asked her brother's permission to court her.
It does take Marian some time - both aided and hampered by the goings-on of her family, and in particular the escapades of her younger brother Alastair - to understand what she feels for Gil, even though, right at the very start of their acquaintance, she ignored the Christmas wishes she'd intended to make for her family, and only wished instead that Gil should have the 'best Christmas ever'. By her efforts, she makes that come true for him...
...and in return, he makes all her wishes come true, and more.
A charmingly romantic book you won't forget in a hurry. One of Kelly's best, though - in the spirit of Christmas - without the heartwrenching angst of Mrs Drew Plays Her Hand or Reforming Lord Ragsdale, two of my other Kelly favourites.
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With frank interviews and conversations, we are let in on the angst, the suffering, the fears and disappointments from parents. It covers many aspects of our lives. Most often, the burning question from parents is "what did I do wrong?" Religion, health, acceptance etc....all the way to "should the neighbours know?
This book is honestly written from the hearts of the writers, parents who have been through all of that and more. We learn of how they cope or didn't. The journeys they have taken and what the effects are with a lesbian/gay in the family unit. A must read, not just for parents, but also for lesbians and gays, and their siblings. And for everyone else too - I recommend this book. It creates understanding, not answers, through the conversations with various people. In all, it is almost like sitting in a crowd and listening in on an interesting discussion or conversation and gleaning knowledge and understanding!!
There is an earlier editon from 1990. Try to get the lastest one, I think 1996/7, with updates on issues like AIDS etc...
Buy or borrow this book, read it again and again. Pass it on. For everyone.
Note: While the book draws from the experiences of predominantly caucasian, middle-class families, the parents were from all across the country and from various religious backgrounds, i.e. Jewish, Christian, Catholic, agnostic, etc.
The book covers an amazing array of subjects including: Issues regarding your partner and the difficulties and triumphs in bringing partners into the family, the grandparents and extended family, the church, the sense of loss experienced by parents when their expectations for their gay child changes, the paradox of the general acceptance of married heterosexuals who don't have children versus gay committed, monogamous relationships, the fact gays can lead happy and full lives, gays in the military, about whether gayness is caused by nature or nurture or both, about whether being gay is a mental illness, about the removal of homosexuality from the APA's list of mental illnesses, about the failure of all forms of "treatment," and the list goes on . . .
I also enjoyed and drew wisdom from the Bernstein book, _Straight Parents, Gay Children: Inspiring Families to Live Honestly and With Greater Understanding_, but found _Beyond Acceptance_ to be better organized.
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Gifts to be Delivered makes you regret all the times you have jumped to a conclusion without checking the facts.
Every story had a different theme and charm. The illustrations were beautiful and I found this book very enjoyable. It is the perfect present for a mother, aunt, close friend, or any woman who enjoys curling up with a cup of tea and good book.
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The author accomplished her primary goal of being able to care for her mother until the end of her life without putting her in a nursing home. We are privileged to see how she made it through the experience with unusual openess, insight, and inspiration.
I've never read anything better on this subject. I found it honest and uplifting. This book should be in the hands of all caregivers and anyone who works with them.
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Other essay subjects include solitude, friendship, listening, generosity, alcohol, betrayal, psychologists and other mental health providers, etc. Throughout the text her values come shining through - commitment to family and friends as well as responsibility for your behavior.
Strong, effective and yet sensitive reading, it is highly recommended to anyone interested in improving themselves or their relationships with friends and family.
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There are some errors here with respect to titles (even the Divine Kelly gets it wrong!) and some sloppy editorial errors. However, this story is wonderful, as summed up elsewhere, and moves along at a cracking pace with a wonderful climax where Marian finally takes the lead in her relationship with Collinwood.
The secondary characters are, as always with Kelly, delightful and all of them add pertinence to the narrative.
Excellent; I truly enjoyed reading this one!