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The book also showed my husband and I why we needed a living trust to protect our young son (so he would not inherit wealth, without strings, at a naive 18), and why my widowed sister needed a trust to protect her children receiving an inheritance if she died after remarriage -- without a trust her inheritance would go to husband #2, and not her children.
The book helps.
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The author invests a lot of words and time trying to persuade readers that there is life after life. I'd suspect that the people who read this book aren't questioning the eternality of life - but would like to hear more about the "death bed visions."
It's an okay book but it needs more meat and substance. It reads more like a book that was written 20 years ago, when the interest in angels and spiritual beings was just beginning. And it's written in very simple and conversational language. It reads like a letter from a friend who's met some interesting people who had death bed visions. The scope and circle of the experiences is quite limited and it's a little too simple for my tastes.
Yes, I believe we're in the company of angels and spiritual beings and I believe there is life after life. I want to know more about what these people saw and heard and felt. I wanted more case studies and personal stories. The author seems to spend a lot of time and words convincing us of the reality of the spiritual realm of existence.
It's an okay book and I'd recommend it, if you have time to read several books. But along these lines - I'd more highly recommend "Hello From Heaven." That book seems more powerful and well-written and researched than "One Last Hug Before I Go."
This book is written in a way that it maintains the interest of the existing "Believer" and captures the interest of the curious and perhaps skeptic. Every reader can relate to some witnessed event in this book. Perhaps not aware of what may have taking place at the time....now enlightened.
I found this refreshingly real and hard to put down Especially in comparison to other popular books about the afterlife that had a commercial edge and were almost trying to "sell" a belief.
Dr. Carla has an impressive fan club of people like myself that respect her for her Spiritual insight and general wisdom of well being. I actually reccommend all of her books. She's pretty multi-tasked!
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However, that being said, I've also done a bit of research on NLP, and I've found that empirical, scientific evidence for some of the ideas it espouses is lacking.
First, I rather doubt that humans can be so neatly grouped by their thinking in one primary sensory 'mode' (i.e., visual, auditory, kinesthetic etc.), being the complex creatures that we truly are. If you have read the book, then you probably took the test that summarizes the primary sensory mode in which you experience the world. I tried some of the exercises in the book, but only found one of them to be applicable to my own situation. The rest of them were decidely not very useful for me.
Not to say that this book won't resonate positively with the great majority of ADD people who read it, but I personally found 'ADD, A Different Perception' to be far more insightful and less time-consuming to get something out of, and it remains for me the best book ever written on the subject of ADD.
educators look at ADD as well as how they work with their
students. The suggestions and exercises in the book were helpful, not
only to my ADD students but to all my students. It offers a healing
peaceful way to relate to and assist students in the classroom. Wish I
had read it years ago. The class met each new exercise with a real
sense of adventure and discovery, taking the the exercises home to
share with their parents. Soon parents were involved and asking
questions. It was wonderful! ...
If you are just learning about ADD I strongly suggest that you read at least one of Thom Hartman's books. This man really understands ADD.
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Thank you Gerry Spence for letting your heart and your soul pour out when writing this book: As a reader, I could truly see inside your heart and could see exact situations happening in my life just in another form. I especially like the chapter: " withholding permission to lose." When things are not going right for some reason in my life, I think it boils down to that chapter.
I am reading the book for the second time; and I always keep it handy. It is, indeed, "An Owner's Manual for Life." You will not regret buying this book.
Look past his courtroom rhetoric speaking to the skeptic. Hard words when he calls you SLAVE. Look past his way of skipping off to the far side so that a compromise is what he really means. When he calls you slave and you deny it, he knows that in your heart you will compromise by allowing that you carry chains. Look beyond this lawyer like tactic and you will find a true gem teaching you to let go. Let your western spirit take you where your life should have gone from the beginning. After reading this book, I nodded and told my boss I would have quit him cold if we already didn't have the ideal relationship Gerry talks about as his hope for the future worker. Read this and quit! Then fire the governor in your state!
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There are people who join the cults and leave spontaneously a few years later. It's a fact. It's just a step in their spiritual journey. But there are also some of them who prefer to say that the years spent in the cult were the result of very effective "brainwashing"/"mind control" techniques, which turned them into some kind of religious zombie. They say they were not responsible for what they did, for what they believed, and that all the guilt should go to the cult leader. But, if this were true, how could all the others leave the cult without deep traumas, deprogramming etc.? If the author, Robert Jay Lifton himself, did recognize that physical coercion was a key-point to his totalist model and that no one of his samples did not really adhere to the Communists ideas (i.e., the Chinese program was a failure), what else is to be said? And even if Lifton had discovered that brainwashing exists (and he did not), why 99% of the other scientists who investigated the issue have not detected it in the cult dynamics? What "mind control science" is this that is essentially based on just one book with an inconclusive research and some few late sensationalists "researchers" (e.g. Singer, Hassan) whose methods and theories are not recognized by the scientific community? Is this science or a modern myth with a pseudo-scientific support?
If you like Psychology and is interested in the cult issue, read this book. It's an important work. But read it entirely, whithout pre-judgements, and compare with other scientific works about "mind control". It is worth the effort.
Lifton's principal shortcoming is the overarching psychotherapeutic interpretations, which sometimes stretch the imagination.
Lifton's book is often misunderstood and misrepresented as a polemic against 'brainwashing' and religious 'cultism'. 'Brainwashing' usually means the hypnotic manipulation of one's thoughts forcing someone to change their beliefs counter to their awareness or conscious will; Lifton denies emphatically that this happened in China or that it can happen. It appears that many who cite his work (and some of the reviewers here) have never read the book, other than through excerpts and summaries.
Lifton himself admits that 'brainwashing' is a misnomer; he denies that 're-education' was effective or that it converted people against their will. Furthermore, he argues that the principal difference between Chinese methods of thought-reform and normal, usual persuasion is the Chinese use of physical violence and imprisonment.
Lifton never intended for his book to be used by the anti-cult industry to attack religious non-orthodoxy and constitutionally guaranteed religious expression.
The concept "brainwashing" first came into public use during the Korean War in the 1950s as an explanation for why a few American GIs defected to the Communists. The two most authoritative studies of the Korean War defections (and this book was one of them) concluded that "brainwashing" was an inappropriate concept to account for this renunciation of U.S. citizenship. When several new religious came into high profile during the youth counter-culture of the 1960s and 70s the concept "brainwashing" was again employed as a culturally acceptable explanation to account for the fact that some idealistic "flower children" came under the influence of "cult" leaders. A quarter-of-a-century of scholarly research on why people join new religions has come to essentially the same conclusion as the Korean War studies -- "brainwashing" is not a viable concept to describe the dynamics of affiliation with new religions. Defenders of "brainwashing" have used other concepts like "mind control" and "thought reform," but they have failed to produce a scholarly literature to support their claims. Thus, whatever euphemisms may be employed, the basic conclusion against the brainwashing thesis is not altered. Still, the mass media continues to report claims of "brainwashing" as if the alleged phenomenon were real. And, as a result, the concept "brainwashing" sustains considerable currency in popular culture. It is, to be sure, a powerful metaphor. "Brainwashing" communicates disapproval of influence by persons, or groups, the user of the term considers to be illegitimate. If you want to understand the origins of the concept, read Lifton's work. Just take care to not get caught by the "cult mind control" rhetoric.
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