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If you ever have a chance to see Ntozake Shange read in person, which I have, don't miss the opportunity. She is as rare and wonderful as her writing.
What a marvellous, inventive Christmas tradition. If I had family, I would initiate this idea. The Christmas chapter is my favorite in this whole book. I also enjoy the recipes scattered throughout the book! I've tried a few and they're great!
I'm not going to analyze this book and try to guess at what the author was trying to do. Seems to me only the author could do that, anyway. All I can do is review this book based on what I got out of it. Besides a new Christmas ritual and some great recipes, what I got out of it was, a beautiful story about a mother and her three daughters, each with their own unique gifts: Sassafrass the weaver, Cypress the dancer, and Indigo the voodoo priestess/midwife. Their mother, Hilda Effania, wants the best for her girls, but she knows they each have to make their own way in the world; and when at the end of the story her three grown girls are reunited in the celebration of the newest member of the family, she lets them know that no matter what, they can always come home. I think this is a beautiful message, and I'm surprised this book hasn't become a movie by now. Not that being on video would improve the story, far be it; in fact, most movies based on books are so intent on sensationalism that it ends up being nothing like the book (think Waiting to Exhale). It's just that, if done right, it could become the type of touchy-feely message film that Touchstone films or even Hallmark should have jumped on long ago.
This is my favorite book, and I don't own/enjoy a lot of fiction. I've had this book about ten years now, my book has a better cover, and I enjoy pulling it down every Christmas just to read the Christmas day story again and again.
I'm seeing some references to this book as reading for grade schoolers. I think that may be a mistake. I wouldn't recommend this book for a young (prepubescent) child; the drug scenes and the passages involving sexuality are a little intense, I think, even though today's children are a lot more worldly about such things thanks to cable!
I learned the twelve steps are universal (previously thinking the twelve steps are for those other people). Each step has a deferent spirituality that uniquely mine -- twelve times. Each step helps me live a more authentic life. Profound book!
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As a young woman (34 years old) and a mother of three (which qualifies me as a caregiver, I guess), my heart went out to these brave women, struggling to impart some small measure of kindness or at least relief of suffering to their fellow prisoners. Women and children are seemingly the most vulnerable when society engages in chaos, but the women caregivers chronicled in this book were apparently among the most intrepid of all. I believe they gathered strength from the acts of focusing on giving aid to others in the most desperate of circumstances. Anyone who is interested in what the human spirit can endure, and indeed, overcome, should read this book.
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Besides, a snowhorse is not only more beautiful than a snowman, it is also a lot easier to make!
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The book continued to surprise me with its depth of information and scope of Christian, Jewish, and Pagan traditions. How nice to see a Catholic nun bringing ancient wisdom to light in a loving, warm and accessible way. Sister Karol goes beyond the mere compilation of rituals to focus on the importance behind their purpose and function in our lives.
I like this book so much, I keep it out in my living room, where it's continually discovered by my friends and family. Pass this one on to your friends.
I decided to go for it and bought all I needed to do the ritual for a job I love. In her view, you are preparing your alter because you're going to call down the Angels/God/Goddess, and she suggests to have complete faith that they WILL show up. Well, I never realized just how much fun this could be, or how reverent I would feel. By the time I was ready for my ritual, I wouldn't have been the slightest bit surprised if a parade of saints marched through my house...I felt overwhelming love, respect and joy.
Isn't God supposed to fill you with this kind of rapture? Isn't faith and religion something that inspires you to love, to care about yourself and others? This precious little book opened my eyes (and most especially my heart) to something I've been longing for.
She says that things will change and while it's only been two days, I've already had two dreams of healing, experienced more synchronicities in the last few days than I've had in the last two years and, furthermore, I simply can't wait to do more. When I approach my alter, I feel such a presence. After all, I know the love and tenderness I felt creating it, but now I feel something else...a link to the Divine, right here in my little home! Of course, I've always known it exists for me anywhere at any time, but now I know it's real. I can't explain it, don't even care to.
If you believe that God is Good, that faith should inspire us to love, to open our hearts to miracles, then buy this little book. It is a gift to your Spirit!
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It's an amazing fact that more than half the world's population bleeds every month, for a very natural reason, but this simple, wonderous physical and spiritual process is reviled, and shunned, and considered evil and unclean. Women go through great pains to hide their tampons and pads, to avoid staining their clothes with blood...The depth of the shame is incredible and very sad. I have felt for a very long time that the bleeding is a holy and magickal thing, a connection to the divine that only women can experience; therefore, it should be respected and untilized as the powerful rite that it is.
In this book, Ms. Stepanich discusses the wisdom that should be cultivated during this magickal time. She connects the phases of the menstrual cycle with the phases of the moon, as women probably did thousands of years ago. She encourages the reader to not be afraid of their blood; to perhaps wear red when they are menstuating..in fact, to wear certain colors for each of their cycle's four stages. She has many good ideas on how to honor the bleeding, how to use the menstrual cycle for magick, and simple herbal tinctures to help ease pain and discomfort. She also tells about the Moon Lodge, a sacred place you can build or put together, where you can be alone (or with other bleeding women) during your "moon time" to access the flowing wisdom of the bleeding time. She suggests gifts to give a young girl for her first menarche, creating and decorating a moon altar, tools you may want for your moon rites, and of course, she discusses the significance and wisdom of the menopause journey.
For the woman who has been made to feel ashamed of her bleeding, and who is perhaps a Pagan, this book is invaluable. Even though I was already doing many of the things that Ms. Stepanich suggests, I found comfort in her voice. Here is another blood sister who sees what I see, feels what I feel, celebrates the bleeding, as I do, instead of hiding it and feeling shamed of it.
It is really time for women to start teaching their daughters (and their sons!) that this magickal bleeding is, at worst, nothing to be ashamed of, and at best, an incredibly holy connection to the divine, to the very Goddess Herself. Women are mirrors of the creation of the universe; whether they decide to have children or not, women carry that magic of inspiration and creation within the wisdom of their blood. If any of this rings true to you, then find a copy of this book!
Of course, no book can ever be perfect to each individual; I did find a few things in this book that I disagree with. In fact, they were all on the same page! (page 85)...I don't like Ms. Stepanich's use of the word "cleansing" to decribe the menstrual cycle. The purpose of the cycle is NOT to cleanse! The vagina is constantly keeping itself clean on a daily basis. There is nothing "dirty" about natural functions of the vagina that would need cleansing during the menstrual cycle. I think it was careless of her to use that word; it just perpetuates the myth that having your cycle makes you "dirty".
I also took issue with her statement that: "If we choose to conceive we share the sexual fire with a mate and move on toward the conciousness of becoming a nurturer. If we choose not to conceive we take precautions, and lovingly accept ourselves for this decision." Hmm. Maybe I'm paranoid, but it seems like she is suggesting that those of us who do not want children need to forgive ourselves. She alludes to this in several other passges when she talks about women who don't conceive. It seems as if she has a bit of that attitude where women who choose not to have a baby are somehow abnormal. She seems to be suggesting that they accept themselves DESPITE this decision. As I say, maybe I'm going overboard and reading too much into it. But the last thing any woman needs is to feel guilty about making her own decisions in life. Ms. Stepanich should have been a little more sensitive about this subject. On the same page (85), she also describes the womb as "getting ready to weep" when it begins to bleed. This gives the image that a woman's body suffers because she has not conceived. Same prejudiced ball of wax that makes women like me ... off when other people look down on us for not having children. Ms. Stepanich, watch your words!
But I still love this book, and feel that every woman ought to at least CONSIDER how she thinks about her "period". This book will open new doors for you, new worlds where women don't have to be shamed of their blood. Don't miss out on the magick!
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