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Mandy DeLoach painted a great big sign that said, "You're entering and leaving Heaven- right this very second (population: 6)." Heaven, Florida is a tiny place a billion miles from anywhere! It is so small that it is not even a town. However, the setting of this story played a major role in the development of the characters and their lives. The DeLoach family owns the local diner, and Willy-Bill resents his family for bringing him to what he considered an awful place. He refuses to work for that reason. So, when Easter moved there, it was no wonder that Willy-Bill took off, because he was very bored with his life. Also, having lived in Heaven for so long, it was a handicap to Willy-Bill and Honey's social and academic development. They were speaking with a colloquial dialect, indigenous to their area, but again, still a detriment and stifling to their growth. For example, they speak in incomplete sentences, "Used to be only three families lived here," said Honey. Willy-Bill lived in an encapsulated world, unlike myself, who is exposed to good and bad daily. He did not have the opportunity to make decisions on right and wrong, which is crucial in the maturing process.
The characters in this novel are unique and distinct. For instance, Christmas grew up in a dysfunctional family, leaving her extremely sad and depressed. Christmas witnessed the love and compassion that Honey received from her parents, and suddenly realized she was truly in Heaven. Ironically though, when Christmas met Honey, she was able to gain inner strength while nurturing her new friend through difficult times. She was positive and encouraging toward Honey in helping to build her self-esteem. On the other hand, Easter, Christmas's sister, portrayed the extreme opposite. She was busy bucking the system, drinking in excess, and a bit too friendly with men. Easter's influence on Willy-Bill was upsetting to the DeLoach family. Finally, Pop-Pop was the preacher who brought peace and harmony to a town that was perhaps a sunken ship. He was the steady hand that represented friendship, comfort, and warm-heartedness.
The tension, anger, and resentment portrayed in the story created conflict among the characters. When the Seasons moved to town and visited the diner, Miriam Season's first impression had disturbed Mandy DeLoach. Mandy disapproved of Miriam's principles and in the upbringing of her children. When she first discovered that Willy-Bill had been seeing Easter Season, she emphatically discouraged the relationship. Since Easter was the only girl that Willy-Bill thought he loved, the relationship continued in spite of his parents' disapproval. The constant conflict among the characters never ended, until tragedy struck.
The setting, characters, and conflict that painted this small American town, with its small-minded mentality, was explicitly outlined by Carol Williams. This would be a great book to share with my friends because it points out differences between people and lifestyles, and only through understanding these differences are we able to grow and become tolerant of one another. I was especially drawn to Pop-Pop, whose character centered around the idea that only love can conquer hate. Furthermore, this book helped me realize that growing up in a well-rounded society has left me somewhat naive of small town attitudes. It also made me aware of the vast differences among people and the complexities they face each day.
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Unfortunately, only a few thousand words enlighten the reader as to how to effect this change in his own community. The first few chapters, an overexaggerated collection of _fictional_ before and after vignettes, are presented with excruciating, nearly condescending simple-mindedness.
The chapters of interest are toward the end, (past 9) advising community leaders how to improve their town. If only the whole work could do the same. This one's a library reader.
I appreciated the in-depth theoretical sections. I believe that I can now effectively answer questions as they are posed to me. The book seems to speak to people who are interested in spearheading this process in a community.
The examples were very helpful as well and the journal format at the beginning was well-received.
I feel this book is extremely well-written and it gave me much hope. I am in the process of getting the word out to key individuals and from there I will develop a task force leading to a series of community forums. I am very excited about this project.
I strongly recommend this book to anyone who is tired of feeling disempowered by the negativity of the youth culture. I believe in our youth and I know that people like William Damon are giving youth a chance by empowering the adults in their lives to work cooperatively to solve problems.
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The Sears' book gives a lot of good, practical advice for dealing with colic. There are countless tips to help ease the pain of gas and colic, which are essential to know when you have an uncomfortable, screaming baby.
(A note of caution: If you are nursing, this book will give you lots of reasons to continue. However, if you are not breastfeeding, this book may not be for you because breastfeeding is mentioned and encouraged often and it may make you feel badly about your decision to stop.)
This book is for you if you're at the end of rope comforting a baby who cries inconsolably because of colic and not getting any positive results. If anything, the book gives you a little pat on the back for following your instincts and comforting your baby, even when meddling passerbys suggest that you are spoiling your baby and need to put him or her down for hours to cry so that s/he can learn self-soothing techniques.
I no longer need the Sears' book, thank goodness. My baby is now 9 months and the colic has subsided. THE FUSSY BABY BOOK served me well. Now I have a different set of problems, though, and I've had to move onto other books, like Elizabeth's Pantly's NO CRY SLEEP METHOD.
Thank goodness I found this book! I can still remember the first time I read it - the sigh of relief that I wasn't alone and the wonder at all the great ideas and suggestions in the book. We put these suggestions to work in our parenting and followed Dr. Sears' advice to the letter. Now we have an angelic two year old - she's a joy to be around. She is now the easiest kid in the world to parent - the most easy going, friendly, and sweet kid you could imagine. Now my friends all say how lucky I am to have such an easy toddler! I think it is due in great part to Dr. William and Martha Sears and their wonderful insight and advice - their suggestions certainly worked for us!
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However, the most impressive thing in this book was its cover, a beautiful baby stares at you...you will find nothing brand-news if you are the person who read their other books before.
My opinion is that "Christian Parenting""The Baby Book""The Fussy Baby Book" are worth reading. As for breastfeeding, I found other books like "Bestfeeding" more helpful than their book.
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Unfortunately, this book has a very narrow scope. The author usually uses the word "school" to mean "public school," so he has very little to say about private or parochial education, or the home-schooling movement.
Still, he makes an important point. The public school establishment, administrators and teachers alike, constitutes in many ways a distinct social class, with its own view of the world, and a view that is at odds with the views of many parents. Thus, conflicts between parents and teachers, even on some seemingly trivial points (how much homework? what kind of Christmas decorations should be allowed) is necessarily a political struggle.
The public-schooling establishment sees itself as the bearer of some high altruistic apolitical virtue. But that attitude is just one political fact among others.
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However, don't believe the age range listed for this book in the on-line catalog. This is a book for and about BABIES. As soon as your little one has had enough of being known as "the Baby", you need to put this book aside and move on to another good book. My son outgrew this book with his toddler clothes.
I think the author has tried to cover too much ground and missed the mark all around.