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Denounced by the extreme right and extreme left, Steinem's life has taken her from Ohio to Massachusetts to India, Washington DC and NY. Having cofounded Ms. the National Women's Political Caucus, the Women's Action Alliance and Voters for Choice, Steinem is truly an example of a good role model.
Heilbrum's superb prose takes us into the infamous resentment born by Betty Friedan and Kathie Sarahchild. Although both of these women are famous in their own right, their inexcusable and childish tantrums undid their own feminist reputation without any help from Steinem. Also deserving of their repuation is Betty Harris who's paranoid delusions and lax work ethic jepordaized the working environment at the early MS. Steinem is a saint for having dealt with these crazies and still keeping cool.
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That she married some rich English baron or other and moved to England, thereafter supporting her neer do well relatives (including her mother) for decades (as she had in the States), seems beside the point, except that it's clear that she finally gave up the fight. As she saw it - or are we merely imagining how she saw it? Perhaps we expect too much from Victoria, and given her times, she pretty much gets a pass. She caused not such harm as Ellen White, Madam Blavatsky or Mary Baker Eddy. Give thanks.
Part of this biography delves into the internal feuds in the early 1st wave feminist movement, which tells us a bit about 'power seeking' (even in females), as does the life of Woodhull herself. At each stage of her (and her relatives) life, there are powerful males, her father, the drunken doctor she marries young, Cornelias Vanderbilt, her literary second husband, General Ben Butler, whoever is male and useful. Excepting her father, they all get sexed, and they all are useful. Not that such maneuvering towards the top by women is all that uncommon in the last 4,000 years of human history. That it's a woman's way, does not one thinks, make it a life to emulate in the modern feminist movement. I'll take Abigail Adams anytime.
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The first problem that I had with this book is that it simply doesn't work well as a book. I didn't laugh. I didn't cry. I didn't anything. The monologues are written as performance pieces and simply don't stand up without the performance. It isn't their fault, just the nature of the thing. As a sidenote; I was able to see the monologues sometime late, which really brought home the point to me - it needs women to make it come alive.
The second problem that I had with The Vagina Monologues was that I felt it missed the mark. As with so much feminist literature it mixes up freeing women/relieving oppression with a sort of 'no holds barred' abandonment of any type of morality. As a result, I have very mixed feelings about the monologues. I feel some are very important and need to be heard by more people (such as the monologue which illustrates why rape as a tactic of systematic warfare is a very bad idea). That monologue (for me) speaks to the idea of acknowledging women's suffering and seeking to do something to stop it. On the other hand, I felt that some of the monologues were in very bad taste that borders on criminal. I'm thinking specifically of a monologue which details how a grown woman makes love (I call it molests) a thirteen year old girl. I'm sorry if I seem too conservative for the times, but I don't see how it is liberating to women to be commiting pedophelia upon them.
Which brings me to another point about The Vagina Monologues. The author's message of freeing women from the bonds of oppression gets all mixed up with a 'lesbians are good' message. Regardless of whether lesbians are or are not good, I feel that this muddies the waters in this book considerably. After all, if the thirteen year old girl that I mentioned in the last paragraph had been involved with a grown man, we'd all be howling from the rooftops.
In summary, I feel that The Vagina Monologues have lots of potential but suffer from a clear definition of mission. The book plays fairly badly as well. Read the Vagina Monologues if you wish, better yet, attend a performance. Be prepared, however, to hold yourself back from being swept into the popular tide of thought so that you may think and judge critically, for yourself, what you find.
Reading The Vagina Monologues left me with a new feeling of empowerment and happiness at being born a woman. The women Eve Ensler interviewed for the essays came across as strong individuals -- simply because they survived. The essays cover a wide variety of topics such as birth, sex, rape, genital mutilation, and menstruation. All different types of women were interviewed, and their stories will make you laugh, cry, and shout with joy. Plus, reading the letters in the back of the book from people who attended the live performances was very moving. Just hearing how the show affected the audience (men and women alike) was enough to see its worth.
I thank Eve Ensler for creating The Vagina Monologues and for believing in the power, uniqueness, gentleness and strength of women. Makes me want to start my own show. And to quote one of the women who directed the play, "Viva Vagina!"
It is a collection of monologues about the 'blameless vulva' written from different perspectives and covering all aspects of self-image, body awareness, female oppression, violence and a little bit of sex too. It is often very funny, but within minutes you will find yourself crying as some of the monologues are poignant and distressing. Eve Ensler has been incredibly brave in facing many of the issues head on.
Don't hesitate - buy it.
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My favorite essay from this book is "I Was a Playboy Bunny," in which Steinem gives her account of infiltrating the Playboy Club to investigate what goes on "behind the scenes." Although it was shocking to read about how the "Bunnies" are treated, it was also funny to hear about Steinem's wacky experiences while running the hat check or serving drinks. She also managed to socialize with the other Bunnies in the back room, discovering that women are lured into the club with promises of high wages, but many were making barely enough to get by. Steinem ridicules the way that the Bunnies are treated by both the patrons and the management, pointing out that the women are being used as objects without regard to their personal feelings or sense of dignity. A poignant comment made at the end of the article casts some light on the bigger picture -- Steinem says that feminism has helped her to realize that "all women are Bunnies." After having read about her "job" in the Playboy Club and then comparing it to the way that women in general are treated, I couldn't agree more. While I was reading it, I thought that this was a funny essay that intended to poke fun, but after reading Steinem's correlation to society, I realize that the article should serve a sobering reminder of why feminism is so important. "I Was a Playboy Bunny" is a wake-up call to men and women everywhere.
Overall, I thought that "Outrageous Acts and Everyday Rebellions" was an awesome book. Steinem's lucid writing about how much feminism grew during just two decades should serve as an inspiration to feminists and other activists of the future. I wish I could say that the Feminist Revolution is over and that we can move on to other issues, but the fact remains that feminism has only just begun -- so much of what Steinem writes about is still relevant today. As we look ahead, we can use this book as a tool for producing change -- one only needs to remember the title, "Outrageous Acts and Everyday Rebellions." With these two principles, we will indeed live on the edge of history and not only dream, but take an active role in creating the justice that is yet to come.
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By collecting telling details, describing them clearly and analyzing them astutely, Stern has shaped a mountain of information into a vivid, nuanced portrait. Sadly, it proved to be too nuanced for its subject. Stern explains in the afterward that Steinem tried to persuade her to change certain details, and when she failed, worked to discredit the book. Too bad. This book offers a realistic picture of a female leader, and thereby does its own bit for womankind.
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God bless.
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Maybe I feel this way only because there is nowadays no apparent "men's movement" to reinforce macho and threaten me as a woman. Or maybe it is because I am a wife and a mother of boys that I think it shortsighted to condemn those who wish to empower men. To blame men as a gender for the disempowerment of women is to overlook a lot of social and economic complexities or our world. Life is hard for people of both genders.
This is a collection of armchair rhetoric to enflame the opposition. I can imagine that ultra-conservative anti-feminists would get a lot of ammunition out of quotes from this ill-conceived book. It is a shame, because there is still a lot to be said for feminism and women's rights. This book, however, is more an example of stray radicalism gone wrong - a sort of "backlash" against an imaginary enemy - than any clear thinking about real social issues.
The most glaring fault, to me, was that the writers almost exclusively addressed the mythopoetic branch of the men's movement. Many of the essays mentioned or alluded to the fact that there were other factions in the men's movement, but almost none addressed them. Honestly, I don't know much about the rest of the men's movement, but for a collection which contained such a diversity of approaches (from straight essays to fiction to "backtalk""), I was rather surprised at the lack of diversity in discussion.
As there were a number of essays, there is obviously a variation in quality throughout. Many of the essays seemed to quote Iron John (not a book that I'm tremendously fond of, in general) grossly out of context, whereas others (Barbara Kingsolver, for example) seemed to take great effort to create a balanced account. Some of the same points are repeated throughout the collection, sometimes stated much more cohesively than others. It is difficult, because of this, to write a review for the entire book, but I would say that it is definitely worth reading for anyone trying to develop a better understanding of men's studies.