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My short summary:
This book encourages children to be at home with a stay-at-home mother from infancy through school-age (avoiding preschool). Then they recommend not teaching reading until the child is ready, and that can fall between 8 and 12. They discourage forcing learning to read before age 8 citing eye problems and other problems may occur. Formal lessons in other subjects are to begin no sooner than age 8. There is no one right curriculum or method. The most important lessons in the early years are character formation and to form a close knit family bond. Don't run your home school just like a government (public) school. And lastly, have the child to volunteer work and be of service to others on a daily or weekly basis starting at a very young age. This they call "The Moore Formula" for success. Be forewarned: anyone who doesn't agree with these ideas will dislike portions of the book or the entire book.
My longer summary:
First off the book jacket states the book will help you pick a curriculum. Whether that is something you want or something that turns you off please know that I could not find that information anywhere in the book and I did read it cover to cover.
The book starts of with the most convincing argument I have found anywhere (including in general parenting books) as to the value of young children staying home with their mothers rather than attending preschool. In "Miseducation: Preschoolers At Risk", author David Elkind speaks to the problems that can occur when children go to preschool instead of staying at home with a parent but he doesn't spend a lot of time stating the true value of a strong bond with the at-home mother and Elkind doesn't focus hugely on the value of an intact and close knit family. The Moore's book does cover the value of a close-knit family in extensive detail. Character formation, instilling values and ethics and good social skills are the main goal of raising young children, according to the Moore's. This can only be accomplished when the children have a close relationship with their parents and when they are physically with their parents so the parent can guide them. Separation at young ages (i.e. going to preschool) prevents the parent from seeing the bad or inappropriate behavior and therefore not being able to correct it. I also feel that this separation can actually cause problems that then need to be fixed.
The authors have spent years researching child physiological development, cognitive development, and reading readiness. The Moore's feel that children should not be taught to read before the age of 8 as a minimum and possibly until 12. For more on this topic. Read their book "Better Late than Early". If reading instruction begins too early, whether at home or at school, if they have difficulty they are labeled learning disabled and they feel other problems crop up such as self-esteem issues, acting out with bad behavior, etc.. How you feel about this opinion on reading will heavily influence how you like the book. If you are looking for proof that waiting a bit to teach reading is OK then you will like this book and also "Better Late than Early". If you have strong opinions against this idea then you will not like that portion of the book!
In lieu of formalized lessons and reading instruction before age 8 or so, the Moore's recommend character formation as the main goal of home educating your child. Television viewing is to be kept to a minimum of quality programming if not banned entirely. Reading aloud to young non-readers is strongly encouraged. Being of service by volunteering is recommended on a weekly basis from a very young age. Parents should also model being of service to others by doing volunteer work themselves.
The bottom line is that if we as parents spend time raising children with good personalities and social skills they will be fun to be around and well liked by others. By delaying reading and formal teaching until at least age 8, a lot of stress is avoided.
The Moore's are Christian and I am guessing there are about 10 religious references overall made by the authors. Their faith is not noted on the book jacket. I mention this as some people seek out books written by Christian homeschoolers and other people prefer non-secular homeschooling books. There are 17 essays written by homeschooling families using the Moore method and some of those are laden with religious references such as saying that the Lord called them to homeschool or that they feel homeschooling is a responsibility dictated by the Bible. I have read other books where religious references outweighed the content, such as saying "to get the best curriculum for your child pray to the Lord and he will guide you". This book does not do that. The book is loaded with ideas, opinions, and references to studies, which provide substance.
The most confusing thing to me was that throughout the book they reference using "the Moore formula" to have a stress-free home school but they don't say exactly what it is until the last chapter which is only 5 pages long. This short chapter really belongs at the beginning. I advise reading this chapter first and then as they go on to explain their formula in detail throughout the book you will understand the references they continually make to "The Moore Formula".
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