In this book, the root of rejection are properly depicted is a useful manner, to deliver us from the feeling of rejection, which ultimately is only in our mind. There are circumstances, but the ONE who is important to us, have never rejected us. Ant this is thoroughly described in the book.

My sister gave me this book when I was going through my second divorce. It was not "just another self-help book". I have read hundreds of those. This book made sense out of all the confusion and chaos of my entire life. It combines the Rockey's own experiences with the true science of the mind and the emotions and how & why they work, and with the truth about the love of God. This book changed how I felt about myself and others. It gave me understanding about my own frustrating feelings and behaviors that I had never been able to overcome. The book gives 4 steps for overcoming rejection. The first step is gaining knowledge. The second step is applying it to yourself. You'll have to read the book if you want to know the next two steps! Maybe it will change your life too. I only recommend this book for people that have suffered some kind of rejection in their life. That would include YOU!

I read this book after attending a Women's Retreat, in which Kay Kuzma was the lecturer. I was extremely pleased with the "how to methods" and the explanations in the book regarding our personal "bad habits." This is a good book to read if you have children, it will help to minimize the scars you leave on your children's fragile spirits. I am a much more understanding person because I read this book.

This is my favorite childcare book right next to How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Faber and Mazlish. Why? First of all every chapter has useful, ready-to-use and easy to remember tips instead of having to wade through pages and pages and pages of child rearing philosophy to get to it. I've used many of them dealing with my four children and with great results. Secondly, the author has a refreshingly positive and compassionate view of children which is important and contagious. Her term "creative disciplinarian" is interesting, teaching one to become aware and alert to a given situation instead of just dishing out punishment in robot-like fashion. This book has many important elements of several other child rearing books that I've read but all in one place that you'll want to reach for again and again. I highly recommend it and thank you Dr. Kuzma.

Great guide to parents in raising responsible loving children in today's world.

If you're interested in sound advice and encouragement in dealing with difficult relationships, this book is for you. I have read several books by Kay Kuzma and enjoyed this one the best. I also heartily endorse her book, "Easy Obedience."

If you are looking for some practical useful ways to get guidance in raising confident children this is the book. It seems as though this book is an update to her earlier book "A hug, a Kiss and a kick in the Pants" which my mother loaned me last year. My daughter is 5 years old and we have used the consequences method for discipline her whole life, it seems to work for us. We like the examples Kay Kuzma gives to validate her methods of disicpline and to preserve my childs self worth and keep her independant and self confident. I have to pick up Easy Obiedience for reference at least once a month because consequence method is so complex. Easy Obiedience provides the necessary information I need even as our daughter gets older, it translates to all phases and ages of children, it works for my 16 month old son as well. Kay seems to have the life experience, to go along with her fine education. I find some of her stories amusing and a positive ways to provide direction for my child. Her humerous adecdotes, and comical ways to get a child's attention adds some comedy to our lives as I am inspired to think of new ways for my own children. I look forward to other books from this wonderful author.