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Happiness Is a Choice
Published in Audio Cassette by Audio Literature (1998)
Authors: Barry Neil Kaufman and Susan Clark
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Hello Happiness!
This is a wonderful book full of the author's personal insights and his proven strategy for living a happy life. I have given this book to many of my friends and family and recommend it whole heartedly.

Yes,you can choose to be happy.
Many years ago I first read this delightful book and I was amazed at how by simply following Bear's Option dialogue process life could be better.
I have given this book as a gift many times and it is one of those books that I unhesitatingly recommend. My friend,life coach Radha Singh who has had the good fortune to meet Barry Neil Kauffman and to do Option courses says that my giving her this book to read transformed her life.
The simple direct style and the easy prose style of a master story teller makes this a fun book to read.
Do not be deceived. If you follow the priciples set out in this book you will indeed live a happy life.

Read This Book
The title says it all. This book communicates volumes of information - all of it constructive. It is a reminder that we all control our own destiny. It is a hopeful, positive message with suggestions and lots of case histories of people who have put this philosophy into action and how they did it. Everyone can benefit from reading this book. I have read it numerous times. It is timeless.


Son Rise
Published in Mass Market Paperback by Warner Books (1979)
Author: Barry Neil Kaufman
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Changed my life
When I was in college I wrote a term paper on autism. It was in my research for that paper that I had the unbelievable luck to read this book. The story had a profound effect on my life. The admiration I have for Barry and Suzy Kaufman to this day has guided my life. A couple of years ago, while surfing the internet, I came upon the Option Institute's website. I was so thrilled to get a return email from them telling me how wonderful Raun is doing. I would recommend this book to absolutely anyone who is questioning the power of love and determination. This is an incredible book of hope.

Amazing Inspirational Book!
I read this book years ago when I was a kid and I thought it was amazing, it is a wonderful book and so inspirational! Before that I didn't know what autism was and learned so much from this book. Son-Rise: A Miracle Of Love, the movie they made is also very good and both book and movie are very touching and inspirational. I just found out that there is a sequel to the book called Son-Rise: The Miracle Continues and will have to try and read that too.

ANGELS AMONG US
This is the most beautiful book about autism in creation.Barry Neil Kauffman, his wife Sumitra (then Suzy) and their daughters have shown just how strong and potent love really is.

The Kauffman's third child is a bright, beautiful little boy named Raun. Raun develops an ear infection early in infancy and from that point on develops autistic behaviors. He does not talk, he rocks and spins objects and only rarely looks at people or responds to his name.

Refusing to give up on this child, the Kauffmans devise a one on one program with Raun. They choose the bathroom as their classroom because that is the one room that "has the least amount of distractors." Raun's parents and sisters all participate with him in whatever he is doing, all the while talking to him about the activities. They turn Raun's solitary stimulation into a group activity and little by little Raun emerges from the shadows of autism.

This is truly an outstanding book. You will not only come to dearly love the Kauffmans, you will come to see that they have provided a gift to all -- the gift of a healthy child.


Giant Steps
Published in Mass Market Paperback by Fawcett Books (01 November, 1990)
Author: Barry Neil Kaufman
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My Personal Favorite
I have read most of Barry Kaufman's books and this is definietly my favorite. I read the book in one night because I couln't put it down. It's very inspiring. I wish I would have read this book when I was a teenager. Everyone I have given it to has loved it.

eye-opening stories
I would recommend this book as a gentle introduction to Barry Neil Kaufman's philosophy of life. Each chapter tells the story of one of Kaufman's young clients and records Kaufman's conversations with the person over different sessions, as the person gradually opens up towards happiness. In the course of the book you get a very nice overview of Kaufman's philosophy, by example rather than having it explained to you word for word. Definitely a moving book too. If you want an actual Kaufman philosophy book, try To Love is To Be Happy With.


No Regrets: Last Chance for a Father and Son
Published in Hardcover by New World Library (2003)
Author: Barry Neil Kaufman
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An Inspirational & Moving Family Memoir
No Regrets has moved me in so many ways. I loved being part of Barry Neil Kaufman's experience, through this book, as he reconciled with his estranged father at the announcement of his dad's terminal illness. I really appreciate how he turns challenges into opportunities, how he models that one can change beliefs in an instant, and how and why to give control to our aging, ill, or dying parents.

I'm so glad I read this book before I have to face the same experience. Now I know I'll be with my parents in a way that is honoring to them, honoring to me, and I know that it will be an opportunity to deepen our relationship. But why wait? I'll put these principles to work right now.

I highly recommend this book.

Heartwarming Guide To Dealing With The Death of a Loved One
This books emphasizes the opportunities presented when the challenge of facing the death of a loved one knocks at your door. Instead of focusing on the need to grieve, the Author explores the beautiful relationship that can develope in the final years, months, weeks or days between family members that can serve to heal the wounds of life. This book is a must for anyone who is either approaching or going through the illness or death of a loved one. I will recommend it to every single person close to me as a must read!


FutureSight
Published in Paperback by Epic Century Pub (15 April, 1998)
Author: Barry Neil Kaufman
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A must read
This inspiring story demonstrates the power of the self. We always have the capacity to recreate ourselves. See how one family transforms their reality by implementing a new belief system. The system alluded to in this book is available to all who read this riveting story.


A Sacred Dying
Published in Paperback by Epic Century Pub (1996)
Authors: Barry Neil Kaufman, Samahria Lyte Kaufman, and Suzi Lyte Kaufman
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Transformative and Inspiring
In A SACRED DYING, the author's use of story easily bypasses intellectual defensiveness and engages reflective awareness of dying on the level of soul. The tranformative nature of this book bridges the gap between human and divine qualities only truth can reveal. I highly recommend this book to anyone experiencing loss. It sensitively weaves the therapeutic process of grief and family dynamics with a myriad of emotions enabling the reader to easily embrace the deeper aspects of relationships that never die. - Samuel Oliver, author of WHAT THE DYING TEACH US: LESSONS ON LIVING


To Love Is to Be Happy With
Published in Mass Market Paperback by Fawcett Books (1994)
Author: Barry Neil Kaufman
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The Option Method
A helpful book about belief systems. I found the clear and concise, EMOTIONAL OPTIONS by Mandy Evans provides an effective how-to approach to this exciting method.

EMPOWERING!
This wonderful book provides a lot of useful approaches to improving one's life. The author is plainly a very loving and empathetic person who has taken his life experiences and used them as teaching tools for others. Mere words do not do this book justice. It is something I would recommend highly to everyone.

Just reading this book will certainly improve your life. It is a step to take in making some empowering life decisions.

profoundly useful for helping me to create a happy life
Every part was helpful. The explanations gave me the background to understand the new ideas. The dialogue sections were easy and fun to read, and made each section crystal clear. The part I liked best, however, was the lists of "unhappy" beliefs that many people hold. I found many of my own beliefs on those lists and chose to change them. This one is my favorite of Kaufman's books.


Out-Smarting Your Karma: And Other Preordained Conditions
Published in Paperback by Epic Century Pub (1996)
Authors: Barry Neil Kaufman and Laurie Campbell
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Humorous and Wise
One of the quickest ways to describe this book, the presentation is not heavy handed or didactic. The illustrations help make the messages clear without uneeded explanation. Fairly brilliant.

Outsmarting Your Karma
Very insightful. A quick reference book on life that can be read over and over.


A Miracle to Believe in
Published in Paperback by Fawcett Books (01 July, 1994)
Author: Barry Neil Kaufman
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THIS BOOK WILL TOUCH YOUR HEART
The Kauffman family has created the Option Living program which has become well-known since their son Raun's recovery from autism in the late 1970s.

Roby Soto, a man living in Mexico learns about the Kauffmans after reading "Son-Rise." His son, Robertito Jr. exhibits much of the same behavior Raun did early in his treatment program. By age 5, Robertito is neither toilet trained nor verbal and his contact is fleeting at best, non-existent at work. Roby, his wife Francisca head north to work with the Kauffmans to restore Robertito.

Raun, of course, takes to his new friend immediately. He loves Robertito's round, full cheeks and from the minute they meet, Raun almost never leaves his new friend's side. I really like the way the author calls Robertito and his parents "our new friends." The staff of devoted volunteers work endlessly and tirelessly with Robertito in one-on-one fashion. They do what Raun's parents originally did with Raun -- they join Robertito in whatever self-stimulating activity he is engaged in, talking to him all the time. Robertito makes great leaps and bounds in speech and self care and at the close of the book, a doctor who had treated him earlier marvels at the boy's progress.

I love the way the author shows his high degree of empathy for all persons. In one chapter, he describes a concentration-camp like institution for autistic children where the kids are cattle prodded into compliance. One weird task is to get the children to "hug their instructors." Barry throws down the article in disgust, saying that autism is a communciation disorder. Why were the children in this place treated this way and referred to as "it" instead of a boy or a girl? And why would anybody want to hug their instructors if their instructors treated them like Holocaust prisoners. Barry is a very astute, loving, kind, intelligent and humane person. He has my unflagging respect. So does his wife, Sumitra (formerly Suzy) and their three children, Bryn, Thea and Raun. They are truly sterling examples of what love is really all about.

God bless the Kauffmans! God bless the Sotos! This book deserved a special place of honor in our hearts and bookshelves.

A powerful continuation of the Son-Rise miracle!
Oh, the power of love! I did not just read this book, I consumed it. The feelings of the Soto family were mine, as I too struggled to try and understand my autistic son. Since visiting the Option Institute and embracing a Son-Rise program for our son, the changes our family has undergone have been miraculous! The son who would not hug or show affection now wraps his arms around me tight and offers me a kiss. I know this happened because I was able to change my beliefs and truly accept him for who he is. Everything that happened to the Soto's is happening to us as well. I loved reading this book right on the heels of reading "Son-Rise, the Miracle Continues." These books have changed our lives!

A victory for love over skepticism
People face all types of challenges in their lives. This book details the challenges facing the parents of a special needs child and the manner in which they chose to flourish instead of buckle under that challenge.Barry Kaufman's message of acceptance in the face of the negative prognosis of all the medical community is a gift to all that face such challenges in their own lives. He suggests opportunity to grow, where others see only tragedy. He finds hope where others find only fear. This inspiring book should be required reading for all those blessed with special needs children and for all of those who want to change their attitudes regarding life around to a more peaceful and happier existance. One of the more unique aspects of this book is the incite it gives you into the other wonderful volunteers and people who work with this little boy. He not only changes the lives of his parents, but everyone around him that he touches.

If you are feeling blue about what cards life has dealt you, read this book and your deck will get a serious reshuffle!!!


Son Rise: The Miracle Continues
Published in Hardcover by HJ Kramer (1994)
Author: Barry Neil Kaufman
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MAKE SURE YOU READ THIS BOOK!
This book picks up where "Son-Rise" left off. Readers are treated to the gift of a healthy, nonautistic Raun and his sisters. Raun provides many of the insights about autism. "You have to be pretty smart to pull it off," he says later. "I don't know how I ever spun a shoe box on one corner. I couldn't do that now." My favorite part was Raun's second grade assignment, which was to draw a picture of himself. His picture was of a beautiful pregnant woman. When asked why he drew a pregnant woman, he said, "That's my mother. There is a little boy inside her spinning a plate." That is a lovely story about how this child was able to chart his own progress and development.

The Kauffmans and their dedicated team of loving people have proved time and again the strength of love and hope. The case histories that are included in this book are very interesting and thought provoking. The Option Program is indeed one of empowerment and helping people to recognize what decisions they can make about their lives.

This is definitely a must read. I can't recommend it highly enough. I love the Kauffmans!

A life-changing experience!!
This book totally changed my life. After our son was diagnosed with Autism, we were told he was severe and probably would never speak. I felt hopeless and confused about what the future would hold for him. The Kaufman's book totally changed my life and I realized that there was so much hope for him. Through the Son-Rise program, we were taught that attitude, excitement and love can all work together to bring about great changes in children with special needs. Now our son is an absolute joy to be with. He has good language skills, he laughs and jokes and hugs and best of all, he loves people. Everyday is a gift! If you want to be inspired, read the book.

This wonderful book of unconditional love changed my life.

I read every book I could find on alternative treatments and therapies [for autisim]. Nothing I read appealed to me. Then a family member gave me the book that would significantly alter our lives. Little did I know that when I read Son-Rise: The Miracle Continues, that my life, the lives of every member of my family and many in our community would be forever changed. As a person who was brought up in a rather open-minded home, the Kaufman's precepts, teachings and beliefs at once made perfect sense. I knew when I finished the book that I would take my family to Option Institute to learn this process. I had hope once again.

The most important thing that Barry Neil Kaufman has taught our family is to reach for the stars, believing whole-heartedly that you will touch them, while totally accepting it if you do not attain your goals. What we used to look upon as tragedies now are always viewed as opportunities for growth and happiness. Thank you Bears Kaufman for your beautiful words of wisdom, hope and love.


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