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I would recommend Dixie Storms to anyone. The setting is vividly described, and the characters are realistic and true to life. Although the plot is somewhat slowly moving, Dixie Storms is still a terrific book.
And so, this is, pretty much, my only complaint with "Shades" ----as with all Barbara Delinsky novels----again with the exception of "Three Wishes" and perhaps "The Woman Next Door"----that there is no suspense, which then also means there will be no page-turning-edge-of-your-seat quality to her books. So, Delinsky novels aren't novels that you absolutely must finish in one sitting--which works perfectly for me. I like to hold on to a novel for a while and pace myself in my reading. I felt like I spent some major time checking in with good friends day by day.
This novel is about an older woman's descent into Alzheimers disease. And, how her daughter and grandaughter cope with having to be caretakers. The nice thing, is that author, Delinsky, doesn't get too technical with medical jargon. She gives you just enough so that you don't feel like you are reading a medical textbook----a frequent complaint I have with other authors who delve too deeply into advanced medical terminology, which is very strenuous on readers who are only looking for general, simple explanations in their fiction.
Although, "Shades of Grace" was writtin in 1995, this novel is very timely since the main character, Grace Dorian, is an advice columnist ala "Dear Abby" who, in real life, --(Dear Abby) did have Alzheimers. The daughter then has to take over the mother's advice column, just like in real life with "Dear Abby."
One thing I must point out is the very racy sex scenes, as the daughter who is overwhelmed with caring for her Alzheimers mother seeks refuge in steamy sex sessions with the mother's doctor!!! Yes, you heard correctly--- a doctor who sleeps with his patient's daughter. Delinsky was not exactly setting a very good example or even attempting to deal with the ethical issues regarding this in "Shades". Oh well, welcome to the world of fiction, and I suppose their are worse things---although there are a few brief sentences about how the physician has a few ethical concerns. Not enough to stop the daughter and physician's racy romp which gets very torrid and explicit all throughout this novel. I've given you fair warning.
In the end, I guess I can forgive Delinsky for these gratuitous sex scenes. After all she did start out as a Harlequin romance writer. And, her writing is far more intelligent than, say, Fern Michaels or Belva Plain.
I am simply hooked on Delinsky's intelligent and thought-provoking writing and characters that become your best friends over time, such that I can forgive any shortcomings.
That terror, faced by a woman in her prime who slowly suspects that she is suffering from Alzheimers Disease, is what is so finely captured in this book. The early symptoms, resultant anger and denial, fearful acceptance, and slow decline of Grace Dorian, a nationally famous advice columnist, is described in heartbreaking detail, first from her point of view, and then from the points of view of each of her subsequent caretakers, from her daughter Francine, who has always been eclipsed by her powerful mother's shadow, to Francine's daughter Sophia, a troubled young woman with problems of her own, to Father Jim, a priest and childhood friend who is Grace's closest friend and confidante.
There are many subplots as well, of course, and they could be considered the usual standard romance-novel fare except that the over-riding reality of Grace's illness and her family's response to it rings so true that it makes everything else in the novel interesting and believable.
Therefore, timid Francine, forced to ghostwrite her mother's syndicated columns, gains strength and insight. Handsome young doctor Davis Marcoux, who is compassion itself when it comes to treating Grace, provides a love interest for one of the main characters. Troubled Sophie, who idolizes her grandmother, is forced to grow up overnight. Father Jim, devastated by his close friend's interest, must finally reveal a terrible secret.
It sounds trite and contrived, but "Shades of Grace" is written with such compassion and humanity, such earnest honesty, that it is impossible to put down until the last heart-wrenching page. It is easy to identify with the characters, particularly Grace in the early stages of the disease, as she jeopardizes her life in her absolute need for denial. And for Francine, who must switch roles with her formerly domineering mother. And for Sophia, who must overcome her inner horror at her mother's and grandmother's role reversals.
I am not going to tell you that this is a fun, day-at-the-beach read. But it is well worth picking up, and in my opinion, remains in the top 5 of Delinsky's ouvre. Her later novels may be more sophisticated, but none equals the sheer heart of "Shades of Grace."
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I, for one, am tired of the parade of NLP books that simply regurgitate techniques that can be found elsewhere--hopefully in books authored by the creators of said techniques.
Do we really need yet another NLP book that teaches, second hand, what the rest of them do? How many authors quoting material from authors quoting material from authors (and hardly ever giving proper credit in the proper place) do we have to endure?
I hope everyone involved in creating these techniques are getting royalties from this book. Probably not.
My advice, go buy the "original" books by Bandler, Grindler, Dilts, and the Andreases. It may cost you more, but you will be getting it from the horse's mouth, not from some parrot.
If you want to change experiences and ideas about NLP and Human Growth you could write me at albirub@virgilio.it
if you need a more detailed explaination of the meta-model (as it exists today), get LMH's equally brilliant "secrets of magic".
No matter, Sara gently scolds herself; she's returning to New York that very day. An unexpected proposal from Jeff will keep her grounded in San Francisco, though. A child has been orphaned by those recent deaths and Jeff is of the mind -- and heart -- to adopt her. To make his claim more viable, and his home life more stable, however, marriage is necessary. And so he makes a bargain with Sara: if she marries him, she can establish a jewelry franchise on the east coast and return to her previous life after a year (when the adoption is finalized). His coolly methodical proposal is hardly the stuff of dreams. Her decision is surprisingly easy to make, but will she live to regret it?
Gemstone has born the test of time well. First published in 1983, this novel is far from dated. Proudly dubbed "A Barbara Delinsky Classic" by HarperCollins, I can neither deny nor confirm said status; I've never before read a novel by Ms. Delinsky. If Gemstone is any way to judge her talent by, however, I would have to agree it is a classic. Reading this novel reawakened that old tingle I used to delight in: the deliciously raw excitement of an author newly discovered. Of course, such a discovery comes a little late in the game, so to speak, for this reviewer.
Yes, the plight of Sara and Jeff is a familiar one to romance readers. Impossibly young when they first wed (I would like to note, however, that Jeff was twenty eight; the same age Sara is now), they were easy victims for Jeff's domineering mother and her machinations. Their difference in social status also became a major problem. At eighteen, Sara lacked the confidence and sophistication to hold her head up high and mingle proudly with a set of peers she felt woefully inadequate to. This novel could easily be a cliché, a tired and wanton misuse of a reader's time. After all, we've read it all before, haven't we? I really can't explain the draw of a plot so dear and familiar. I can only say that I was charmed by Jeff and Sara, by their ability to overcome past mistakes and their willingness to embrace a second chance, despite their paralyzing fears.
To a certain extent, Gemstone does bear the evidence of time in word and deed: Jeff can be powerfully overbearing, arrogant even. Sara and Jeff also vacillate between their feelings of love and their carefully withheld feelings of betrayal and confusion. Communication isn't their strong point, evidently. Eight years can bring about a great many changes, however. Sara's growth into a confident, independent and successful woman is extremely satisfying; and Jeff is likewise blessed with a greater maturity. Apparently, romance novels age like fine wine: they only get better with the passing of time. Gemstone sparkles with a fine patina of aged indolence and smoky passion (forgive the purple prose, please). I honestly felt like I was reading my first romance novel again, and loving every minute of it.
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Each garden is covered in a paragraph or two, a page a most. There are few photographs. I believe the listing is fairly complete, at least compared with the other books I have looked at. With 165 pages there are probably 300-350 gardens.
In my opinion many travel guides are rendered useless by making flat, objective comments about everything, so that you can't get a sense of what is really good vs. what is not. This book isn't like that.
Here are a few short quotes:
Parc Andre Citroen: "Not to be missed".
Jardin des Plantes: "... but anyone expecting a garden comparable to Kew will be dissappointed"
Fontainbleau (one section): "This is the largest parterre he [Le Notre] designed but today, without its patterning of clipped box, it is uninteresting"
This is not a coffee table guide. If you are going to France, and want to visit a few gardens, it is a useful reference.
For more photographs and description I prefer the "Garden Lover's Guide to France".
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The story was realistic and held my attention. I read the book in a day and a half because I couldn't put it down. The dialogue was so natural. I truly felt like Barbara could have been recounting a true story word for word. The relationships between the characters are 3-dimensional, and I understood all the character's reasons for making the decisions they made. I cried, I laughed a little, and I felt alot.
This book revealed some truths about how many people live their lives in fear of being unaccepted and unloved, and how some do not know how to show love or know when they are loved.
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The racism angle was not terribly believable as it was written, either, with the exception of a hearbreaking encounter between Kyle and some unemployed black men. Small town racism is much more ingrained, and less superficial than illustrated here. Inhabitants of this type of environment, even the kindest old grannies, use the n-word as unselfconsciously as if they were speaking of their favorite cornbread recipe. It is horrifying, depressing, and at the same time unremarkable. Unquestioning acceptance of virulent racism by regular people is far more compelling and real than is having those characters be so "bad" in other ways that their racism is expected, and therefore almost excused. It's just one more feature of their already repellent personalities, right? This is almost a cop-out, as if the author felt compelled to show that the person was bad in other ways than their racism.
Still, in total the story was difficult to put down, and the characters stay with you long after you finish it. I hope to read more of this author's books.