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But in the end, the book was a big disappointment. Sure, the story does have a nice dose of originality; here you have Santa who's tired of his borish job and who finds solace when he starts an affair with the Tooth Fairy. But then, of course, Mother Claus (called Anya) discovers her husband's unfaithfulness and seeks vengence. Add to this a jealous Easter Bunny and you have a basis that could have formed a very twisted, very original story.
Unfortunately, Devereaux doesn't seem to know exactly where his story is heading and because of that, the plot is very thin and the book itself feels long, even though it is only 350 pages. There is A LOT of repetition and a few very long passages that should have been edited out since they do very little for the plot except to stall it.
It's too bad, because this book could have been a great re-telling of the whole Santa and Tooth Fairy mythos. But instead, it stalls into the same place for too long and never reaches its full potential. This is far from being the revisionist tale I was expecting.
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I was also very interested in the data gathered through the youth support groups, offering insights into the adoptive experience through youngsters' point of view. The advice they offer adoptive parents is interesting and thought-provoking.
The real heart of the book is the personal stories of adoptive parents who have been long-term members of an adoptive support group. When I got to this section, I couldn't put the book down. I appreciated the openness and honesty of these folks, with their disturbing stories of the pathological behavior they experienced in their youngsters (the majority of whom got into major trouble in school and with the law and/or needed out of home placement at some point), the failure of professionals and social service systems to offer them real help, and their intense pain at the unraveling of their relationships with their well-loved youngsters and the chaos of their personal and family lives. The authors do a good job of identifying common themes among the stories and the experiences of other adoptive parents they have served.
Stylistically, there is some repetitiveness in the opening chapters, and the book was poorly proofread-- there are many typos. More subjectively, I was dismayed at one couple's "writing off" of their lesbian adoptive daughter as "lost" to them, simply because of her lifestyle. An editorial comment, such as those included with others' stories, might have pointed out that the gay or lesbian lifestyle is not universally recognized as unhealthy or dysfunctional, that many gay or lesbian people enjoy close relationships with their parents, and that this family may develop stronger ties in the future.
I would NOT recommend this book to prospective adoptive parents any more than I would advise couples expecting a baby to read a book about inmates of death row who were raised by their biological parents. These families' experiences are the extreme-- hardly the norm for adoptive parents and adoptees. This book, thus, lacks a larger perspective and could have benefitted from any of the following additions: stories/case studies of adoptive families served by the agency who did not experience crises of the magnitude conveyed in the book; stories/case studies of other adoptive families who constructively dealt with adoption issues at different developmental stages but whose children never acted out pathologically; a discussion of risk factors which may increase the changes of serious behavior problems in an adopted individual (such as a diagnosis of fetal alcohol syndome, or multiple pre-adoptive placements).
I WOULD recommend this book to adoption professionals and others working with adoptive families; it is quite an eye opener for those who believe a child who acts out is a product of a dysfunctional family. With some discretion, I would also recommend this book to some adoptive families-- the few who, like the parents in this book, are going through Hell with their kids and would benefit from knowing they are not alone; and others, like me, who are experiencing some bumps along the road but can say, after reading this book, that our kids and families are much healthier than we sometimes fear.
I am extremely grateful to the parents and youth who courageously shared their own stories and to the authors for making this book available.
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There are a few standout stories here. Rogers's own "The Dead Boy at Your Window" is haunting, unsettling, yet amazingly tender and uplifting. Elizabeth Engstrom's "Vargas County" also transcends it's own eeriness as a grandfather discovers his long-buried capacity for love and tenderness. And one of the best stories I've read this year is the well-crafted "The Still Life Drama of Passing Cars."
Unfortunately, Bedtime Stories confounds far more often than it thrills. Jane Yolen's "Souls" begins well, but ends with a twist that is--literally--heavy-handed. Steve Resnic Tem's "There's No Such Thing as Monsters" is just too vague to be unsettling--a problem with nearly all stories in this volume. And the few stories that are meant to be humorous are instead ridiculous.
Ultimately, these bedtime stories (and the low-resolution illustrations) lack the edge to darken any dreams. Recommended only if you are willing to pay for three good stories out of twenty-three.
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The Donkeys is the only short and accessible account in print of the British battles on the Western Front in 1915. Unfortunately, The Donkeys is a terrible book: I studied it closely while researching my Master's thesis, and found it was riddled with errors and lies. It should never have been reprinted.
But don't take my word for it: when The Donkeys was first published, in 1961, it received a number of blistering reviews. AJP Taylor wrote that The Donkeys "lacks understanding and sympathy," "disregards the most elementary rul! es of historical scholarship," and "is valueless as a serious contribution to history." Michael Howard called The Donkeys a "petulant caricature" and dismissed it as "worthless." Rudest of all was John Terraine, who called The Donkeys "the apotheosis of distortion."
If you are interested in the history of the Great War, then avoid this book. A much better and more recent book on this subject is Lyn Macdonald's 1915: The Death of Innocence.
Bob Rizzi Bethesda, MD
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