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Killing the Victim appears to be an attempt by the authors, who are also the main trainers of Momentus/Breakthrough, to reach a larger audience (and likely recruit more people for the trainings themselves). (Co-author Pinci was no longer a trainer at last word, having left the parent ministry.) The book is full of New Age concepts and pop-psychology and all too short on scripture. (Which is understandable, as its tenets have no basis in Christian scripture at all.) Telling, too, is the fact that none of the authors even have any professional credentials in any psychological discipline whatsoever--so by what authority do they speak? This book is no more valid to true, beneficial change in anyone's life than if it were written by any other self-proclaimed, untrained "expert" on the subject. It is, in fact, quite dangerous to one's own mental and emotional health should a reader actually try to follow the advice in its pages. And to a Christian, it is absolutely destructive to one's spiritual life and Christian walk.
As noted, however, the main problem with this book lies in its claims to be Christian in origin and tone. If the authors were honest in relating where they got their ideas and concepts rather than attempting to portray them as Christian, this book would be somewhat less objectionable (though not very). At least readers who are Christian and would never consider following humanist psychological or New Age advice would know where the authors are really coming from. Then, if someone really wanted this kind of information and wanted to follow it, they'd know exactly what they were getting. Instead, Killing the Victim actually victimizes its readers--those who are Christians, at least--by giving the false impression that its ideas come from the Bible and scriptural principles instead of humanism and the New Age. This makes Killing the Victim little more than modern-day snake oil.
I urge any potential reader of this book who is Christian and who wants to become a better Christian to avoid it like the black plague. Those who follow its recommendations invariably become more self-oriented rather than God-oriented, as Christian scripture commands. The supposed Christian authors who've endorsed this book obviously have either not truly read it or are themselves so immersed in secular humanist psychology that they're no longer reliable guides to a Christian walk.
I see that, as I write this review, the book isn't currently available. I'd like to think that means that it's permanently out of print and no longer lurking somewhere in bookstores as a time bomb for undiscerning readers. Unfortunately, as the ministry for which its authors work has recently undergone a name change to escape recent exposes of its trainings, it's likely it's simply going to come out later in a new edition with the relevant updates. Don't be fooled! The only victim this book really deals with is the one you'll become by reading it and following what it says. Let he who has ears hear these words.
Note: I gave this book 1 star only because the reviewing form doesn't allow me to give it no stars--or, what would be more appropriate, negative stars.

The controversy that seems to surround their point of view is deomonstrative of the potency of their message. If the message has power to save it also has equal power to offend those who subscribe to the entitlement mindset. The spiritually flabby Christian will be overworked by reading this, but those who are used to thinking rigorously will be deeply moved and invigorated.
I have given this book to more than 50 people in the past six months. I am reading it for the second time and I look forward to the journey.

GAP is the best thing I have ever attended. Unlike most retreats, the counselor's at GAP allowed you to examine your own life, to see what might be causing problems for you.
Everyone seems to think it is stupid to discuss with a person why they should have been in their seat on time. I don't understand this. Before starting training, every person promises to be in their seat before time is called, and should not be angry when they are held to it. People get mad because counselor's want people to stand when they speak, and not to side-talk with participants during discussions.
You should not make a promise you can't keep. It is as simple as that. You should not make commitments when you have no desire to keep them. And you should not speak out against training you have not attended. If you do, then who is the real victim? The person that realizes the problems in his or her life, or the person that mindlessly repeats the media's biased views?
As for the book, it has helped me and my family alot. When other books would have just quoted scripture, this book (and the gap training) applies them to your life, and asks the questions that no one else asks. Questions such as, "Why is it so hard to keep your promises that you made less than two hours ago?" and "Why do act like it is not a big deal to lie?"
If you go to the training, actually listen to what there is to be said, and really open up to the teaching, then you will not have any bad opinions about GAP, Breakthrough, or this book. If you do, then I will listen to you. Otherwise, quit letting the media put words in your mouth.
If not for the creators of this book and the GAP training, I would be lost right now. They did not tell me what I did wrong, they simply allowed me to examine myself and decide whether I was living my life right. I realized that I had issues with lust, lying, and not being truthful with people. In four days, my entire outlook on life was changed.


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