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I came to PLAYING THE BONES in the course of researching the blues literary tradition (poems, novels, plays, memoirs). It is--and I cringe at the term, even as I use it for its general descriptive value--the Great Whitegirl's Blues Novel: firmly within a tradition limned by Zora Neale Hurston, Clarence Major, August Wilson, Wanda Coleman, Bebe Moore Campbell, Arthur Flowers, Mezz Mezzrow, B.B. King, J.J. Phillips, Mike Bloomfield, and others. Redd, in her fearlessness, probes the sex/violence nexus, those uncontainable Id-energies in which a certain kind of deep-blues expression is grounded, without flinching. Her description of a relationship between Black Jesus, a blues guitarist, and Lacy Springs, the whitegirl protagonist (and survivor of childhood sexual abuse), is hot & bothered, vexed by Black Jesus's dog-shooting and girlfriend-beating (he's Hurston's Tea Cake brought into the hip hop age); it's a womanist critique that stings, but it's also playful, real, sexy, with spiritual redemption in its sights.
This book BETTER stay in print, because I've had the pleasure of teaching it in one blues literature class so far (The New School in NYC) and plan to teach it again next spring.
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Among other aspects of loving an alcoholic, the novel hints at the guilt when one partner stops heavy drinking and partying but the other doesn't or progressively drinks more. There is some self-hate due to feeling like a hypocrit. I think anyone who has loved an alcoholic, without being one his or herself, will see some of their experiences here. On the flip side, anyone who is tired of hearing complaints about their level of drinking may also finally HEAR what the "nagger" feels and is experiencing.
Like life, the story turns in ways you don't want it to and the characters change their minds when you don't expect them to or don't think they should. The author does not try to give answers to questions that have no answers. It is a comment on family, love, alcoholism, martyrism, and the different facets of an individual personalities (some which are hidden from all, some that are reserved for only the people the person loves).
Contrary to another reviewers comments, Jay DOES discuss AA, though briefly, and why he chooses to try to get sober with only the help of his independent group of supporters.
All-in-all this is about a very disturbing subject but life breathes through the pages. The author sprinkles in some light humor to loosen the mood. In a way, the book itself is a little support system for those that have an all too similar story and a wake-up call for those who may be going down the same path.
There are several points here that could be used in a discussion group. In fact, there are even some sample questions in the back if you want to use them in a reading group.