If you are planning to get married, this book would be wise reading to open your eyes to potential problems with your future spouse. If you're already married, it is very hard to move above the preachy, condescending attitudes of the author in order to find the bits of wisdom to help your marriage financially. It is too late to choose one's mate carefully (lest we jeopardize our potential net worth) unless we divorce and start all over again with someone else (not an option for me).

My husband and I have read this book and it has been so helpful to us. We have been married 12 years and we have had a lot of tense moments when it comes to managing and speiding money. We learned so much from this book about why we are different and what to do to smooth things out between us. We would like send our complements to the author...our relationship is so much closer and happier now.

My husband and I have read this book together. It has been very helpful and eye opening for us. We have struggled to provide and introduce our children to the type of life we have wanted them to know. This book has helped take a lot of the roadblocks to our success as a couple out of the way and we are more in love with each other than ever before. We have learned to be able to deal with difficult issues and we have learned how important it is to be looking for ways to improve our relationship skills. Now discussing small, difficult or money issus in our life are no longer difficult or agonizing. We have learned to calmly and politely sit down and talk with one another and work through together the issues of managing our household. We are sure glad we found this book and we refer it to our friends often.