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From the very first page, I was immediately swept up in the story, which was set against the background of the horrors of Maoism. Here was history come alive through the eyes of the people, each one so beautifully developed that even the minor characters became unique individuals. There is not a wasted word and the tightly crafted sentences, juxtaposed with quotations from Mao's writings, brought me right into the heart of China. I felt the political fervor as well as the frustrations and depravations of living through that unique time.
I loved this book. I read it quickly, and had a hard time putting it down. Highly recommended.
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Several things were striking about Karin Evans "Lost Daughters of China". First, the striking similarity and commonality of thought that prospective adoptive parents experience before during and after the adoption is amazing. It is as if Karen could read my thoughts about the paperwork anxiety, the diplomatic anxiety, the waiting, the shopping for baby things, the thought that this very baby was destined for us, the thought that my daughter's birthmother loved her so much that she made the supreme sacrifice so that my daughter could live a productive, fruitful and full life, the dealing with ignorant questions from well meaning strangers, etc. etc. Karen does a much better job of translating these thoughts and feelings into words than I have ever been able to do.
Second, Karen Evans as well as many China adoptive parents I have spoken with talk about the extreme difficulty of the adoption in terms of the dossier, the waiting time, multiple snafu's, etc. It is not an easy process under any circumstances. However, for anyone considering a Chinese adoption, and who read this review, use Chinese Children Adoption International (CCAI) in Denver, Colorado. This organization has now completed more that 3,200 adoptions from China as of this writing. People all over the USA have used them. It is run by two wonderful Chinese nationals and I know no one who doesn't give them the most glowing reviews. Karen could have saved months by using CCAI.
Third, unlike several of the reviewers who objected to the speculation about the birthmother's thoughts and state of mind, I appreciated this perspective. For people who have adopted from China and have no history of their daughter at all, informed speculation may be the best we ever have to hold on to regarding our daughter's immediate heritage. I also found the Chinese family profile (the abandoning family) very informative and useful.
Fourth, and this is my only real objection to this book, the idea that adoptive families of Asian children cannot live normal lives irritates me. I have been innundated by authors and lecturers primarily, over the past seven years that continue to remind me how I need to force feed Chinese culture down my daughter's throat. They tell me that because my daughter looks different than her parents, she is going to have all kinds of special issues requiring special treatment ranging from therapy to Mandarin language classes, to learning to use chopsticks, etc.
I think there is some kind of subtle racism at work here. I don't think there would be nearly the furor over the adoption of a baby of Swiss descent by American parents for no other reason than that they would look alike. I tell my daughter that she can be proud of her Chinese heritage and I will support her exploration into her cultural heritage as far as she wants to take it. But, and this is a big but, she is American now. She is as American as I am and as American as her school mates. I have no great affinity towards Britain where my ancestors came from and I don't think she should have her ancestry forced on her anymore than rest of us do. Maybe I am being naive, but I just want to raise my Asian daughters as daughters. I want normalcy. Is that asking too much? Is that impossible? I don't think so.
Regardless, this is a great book. It is an easy read and I recommend it without hesitation.
"Not only an evocative memoir on East-West adoption but also a bridge to East-West understanding of human rights in China." -- Amy Tan author of The Joy Luck Club
"In this balanced account of the extraordinarily complex issues involving the lost daughters of China, Evans is respectful of the Chinese, of adoptive parents, and of the rights of women. She is a wise, greathearted woman who writes from both a personal and a cultural perspective. As I read this book, I thought of many friends who would love it. I believe you will love it too." -- Mary Pipher, author of Reviving Ophelia
Lyrically written, precisely observed and emotionally evocative, The Lost Daughters of China is a cross cultural adventure of the soul. Did I tear up reading it? Yeah, a little. But I laughed in equal measure. Evans is simply dazzling." -- Tim Cahill, author of Pass the Butterworms
"Exceptional and very well written. I feel connected to this child, an orphan adopted from China. As Chinese females, we are in the battle together." -- Anchee Min, author of Red Azalea
"Powerful and important. Each page of this book was stained by my tears. The Lost Daughters of China is not simply a journey of a child, a man and woman, but a history of cultural mixing at the end of the millennium." -- Belle Yang, author of Baba: A Return to China Upon My Father's Shoulders
"A 'superfluous girl' myself, I was deeply moved by this book. It deserves the attention of everyone who wants to understand what the human heart cries for." -- Hong Ying, author of Daughter of the River
"Breathtaking-an unforgettable story. The Lost Daughters of China describes not only the tragedy of social engineering, but the healing power of a mother's love. -- Iris Chang, author of The Rape of Nanking
"There has been much press about rescuing (adopting) baby girls from China's oppressive sociopolitical climate, but little about the women and men who are losing their daughters. Here, Evans gives us a whole story, both moving and jarring. This is the book I have been waiting to see." -- Jan Waldron, author of Giving Away Simone
"A fascinating statement about the cultural phenomenon of unwanted girls in China, viewed through the lens of a Caucasian adoptive parent. In this book, the personal and the political intersect in important and enlightening ways." -- Claire Chow, author of Leaving Deep Water
"As an Asian woman, I truly understand and was deeply touched by this compellingly told, beautiful story." -- LeLy Hayslip, author of When Heaven and Earth Changed Places
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Red Azalea tells Min's story from elementary school where she is a good communist leader right off the bat, to her time spent at a farm where she has a relationship with her supervisor, to being chosen to star in a film version of one of Madame Mao's operas, Red Azalea. I found Min to be inaccessible, and the memoir difficult to ground in reality; however, this did not prevent me from enjoying the book and being vastly educated by it. The tone of the book was almost otherworldly, perhaps because of the lack of everyday details that would somehow anchor the events. I found myself often glancing back at the cover of the book, as if to remind myself that this was indeed nonfiction. Red Azalea is quite different from any book I've ever read: a memoir both complicated and simple, a plot both clear and elusive. Recommended for a challenge where you'd least expect one.
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If the reader has any general knowledge of Madame Mao, the book hardly sheds any new light on this significant personality in recent Chinese history. The reader does not gain a better understanding of what made her tick or why she was so evil. The character Ms. Min portrayed is an extremely evil one, all evil and with little redeeming quality. However, near-one-dimensionally evil characters do not make very interesting subjects of novels.
The historical personality-based novel is a great tool for the author to share her view on the motivations and psychology of historical characters. Till this day, Jiang Qing lives in rumors and innuendoes yet little factual is known of her. One can only depend on fiction to explain the connections among the events in the life of the "White-Boned Demon". Ms. Min's novel, however, reads more like a poorly written newspaper account of a life rather than a deep psychological exploration. She could have done better with a really very interesting subject matter.
If your summer reading list is short, leave this title out!
The voice of Madame Mao come through clearly in the alternating sections written in the first person. It is here that the reader gains some psychological insight into the forces that have shaped her life. These sections are always followed by a dispassionate third person narrative. I found this technique effective in telling this story.
The tale begins when the young girl rebels against having her feet bound, and follows the headstrong young women through an acting career and three unhappy marriages before she meets the dynamic Mao and joins her life with his. She craves his love, but is treated badly throughout her life. There is always intrigue and betrayal. Favor or disfavor is subject to whim. The world she lives in is cruel and she lives in constant fear of her enemies.
I had hoped to learn more about Chinese history. But the focus is always on the person and much was not explained. I also found it difficult to follow the many different Chinese names and kept getting the people confused, especially since, with the exception of Madame Mao, most of them were not developed in depth. I was also aware that is was a historical novel about real life people and kept wondering about where the line was drawn between fact and fiction.
Mao Tse-tung saw everyone as an enemy, imprisoned anyone who seemed to threaten him. Madame Mao did the same. And whether or not she was able to ever achieve true love seems besides the point.
This book would probably be most interesting to those who already have a background in Chinese history. I can therefore not give this book any more than a very weak recommendation. It was a good try on the part of the author. But it just didn't work for me.
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