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First love shows the blend of comedy and tragedy that is so prevalent in Russian works of the period. The events portrayed are those that could occur in daily life even to today. The emotions that are evoked are real and timeless. It surely adds proof to the argument that Russian works of this period age so much better than do those authors from other countries whose works have survived.
Spring Torrents is the longest of the works and still provides a feel that the length is exactly perfect for the tale. If the prologue does not pull you into the story you have an absences of a great concern that plagues many of us. How many of us fear reaching that point (or have reached that point)in life where we recognize all of the great loss of opportunity which has occurred in our life. From this prologue the story races along explaining how one of us has reached the position when the concern has become a reality. Wonderful feelings are evoked on the path.
This book is highly recommended for all and is a must read for the Tolstoy, Chekov, Gogol and Dostoevsky fans.
Turgenev's understanding of and ability to capture the complete emotional processes of people in love in this collection touched me in its sincerity and genuine clarity. All the insane, skipping-over-themselves thoughts and quick jealousies that people experience are completely captured in stories like "First Love" and "Diary of a Superfluous Man."
Turgenev is a great introduction to Russian fiction. I'm sorry that I didn't discover him earlier.
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Mary Motte Alston Pringle may have been the last of the legendary Southern Women. Truly born to the manor and accustomed to every luxury as a young woman, she rose to challenges during and after the Civil War that would have destroyed a lesser human being. The letters that she wrote just after the war to her adult children who were scattered from California to Europe would have left me in despair if they had not held such a powerful message about the durability of the human spirit.
She had no money, her beloved family home was occupied by Union soldiers and she was separated from many whom she loved, yet there is such courage in these letters that the book left me filled with inspiration. Men and women today can find much to admire and emulate in this indestructible family. "Mary's World" has a permanent place on my bookshelf and in my heart.
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It seems Thai bar girls are objects of genuine desire from many overseas strangers.
And they have stacks of love letters to provite it.
Two writers, American Richard Ehrlich and Canadian Dave Walker, won the confidence of several women to gain an intimate slice of the sex trade that rarely gets seen.
The result has been a bestseller..."Hello My Big Big Honey! -- a collection of love letters to Bangkok bar girls and their revealing interviews.
Letter-writers' names were omitted for privacy though all the texts begged one questioon -- could love survive in these conditions?
Ehrlich says it can, but the odds are against it.
He and Walker trawled Bangkok bars for more than two years before cataloguing selected letters in a tome of tryst and mistrust.
"Prostitutes told us a lot of men fell in love with them and went back to Australia, America and Europe and sent back love letters, putting money in envelopes," Ehrlich said...
"That proved they were in love because they were no longer having sex."
Some letters were from Australian factory workers.
Cash was often intended to put the girls through school and some letters mentioned marriage.
"The girls would have large manila envelopes stuffed with love letters from many guys from many countries," he said.
"Most were fairly juvenile expressions of lust but there were some genuine love letters."
It was the genuine letters that gave rise to the book.
Ehrlich and Walker quizzed the girls about AIDS, the status of prostitutes in Thai society and their advice to fresh recruits.
"One girl had several guys all sending her money and she was telling them all she would marry them," he said.
"Yet she was placing adverts in New Zealand. She was more mercenary.
"Her dream was to get enough gold to open a shop.
"Another girl had slash marks on a forearm from a suicide attempt.
"She fell in love with a foreign guy and really believed he loved her but one night she walked into another bar and found him with another bar girl. So she slit an arm."
Then there was another girl taken on by feminist agencies and non-government organisations who toured the world to lecture about prostitution and the dangers of AIDS.
"Although she knew everything about AIDS and safe sex, she said she would go without a condom if she needed the money," Ehrlich said.
He discussed the mechanics of long-distance love affairs with a Thai academic who concluded: "A foreign man having sex is in control but the moment he falls in love she is the boss."
Two fantasies are commonly played out -- he is her proactive saviour and she passively will be saved from her lifestyle and move to the West.
"In reality he may beat her or take her back home and use her as a prostitute there," Ehrlich said.
Money was an enduring part of a relationship, he said.
For her, it demonstrated true love.
For him, it shouldn't buy love.
This led to the seeds of mistrust.
Ehrlich saw Bangkok bars as a conduit for tourists and expats to meet normally conservative Thai women who would avoid scandalous associations with foreign men.
Prostitution is illegal in Thailand.
About 95 per cent of the trade is between Thais, only 5 per cent with foreigners.
About two million of the 65 million Thais are thought to have HIV.
Ehrlich said some foreign men did marry Thai bar girls and lived happily ever after.
by Torrance Mendez, West Australian, Perth
I want to mention one book about the subject, because it really is special.
The title is "Hello My Big Big Honey" and it consists of love letters written by former "clients" to Thai prostitutes as well as interviews with some of the girls.
This shows you the differences between prostitution in Thailand and in Western countries, as well as the attitude of the girls who work in that business...
Rene Hasekamp, Patent Examiner at the Dutch Patent Office, and deputy judge at the District Court ("Arrondissementscrechtbank") in the Hague, Netherlands
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