Where has Deb Margolin been all my life? These pieces are so beautifully written and so performative... it's like walking through the world with someone who keeps tugging at your sleeve shouting, "Did you see that?" Deb Margolin's work helps us all see more clearly. Anyone who is a performer will rejoice at finding this work. This book is for anyone who loves language, who finds life worth living in its most absurd details, and who wants to know that there is really is amazing theatre being performed... bless Lynda Hart for having the vision to get this work published.

NYC performance artist and wordsmith Margolin creates intriguing verbal landscapes. The writer understands how in the space of time we are bound by the history of truth. Eager to read this book when published.

I have not read this book yet. I have, however, read three of Deb Margolin's short works at Salon magazine's site and they make me want to read much more. I find her work to be at once erotic poetry and searing social comentary. I look foward to reading more by this author.

Being relatively new to accept the lifestyle, I found Hart's book refreshingly honest and informative. It is a book that a newly-acknowledged submissive can read with her (his) dom/master. While not a psychoanalysis of the lifestyle, and not the authoritzative text to explain the lifestyle to "outsiders" it will certainly be an important work for those of us who have finally admitted our deep and longstanding desires and wish to know more of the details to living out our fantasies in a safe manner. As BDSMers know, the lifestyle is always Consensual and Safe...there's always a way out, so it's NOT abuse. Read this and learn more...