The author depicts the protagonist's selfish motivations skillfully, from childhood into late middle age. By showing her refusal to accept her lover's marriage proposal because of class and intellectual differences, Groult portrays the woman's haughtines: she rejects her first serious lover and chooses instead various spouses and companions based on financial, career, and intellectual considerations. The novel charts the course of the woman's repeated decisions to ignore her own choices and become involved again and again with the man she deems her cognitive inferior.
Along the way she constructs snobbish, often funny excoriations of popular culture and how the effete-- herself and her husbands-- can lead unsatisfying lives by falling prey to avant-garde trends. Groult shows how self-serving this woman is by refusing to let her lover go, by causing him extended pain; the novel also reflects how much she gains by allowing herself to be truly loved. The heroine actually shows some emotional, moral, and social growth because of the affection she receives and-- finally-- recognizes.