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Take a good slow look at this book. If it helps, let me know. Steve
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I bought this book primarily because I have a business interest in coaching, and most coaching books that I have read made some reference, however fleeting, to Gallwey's work.
Surely, I thought, the guy must have something pretty fundamental to say about the art of coaching. And surely the latest book must have the most up-to-date synthesis of the author's ideas.
Well, if it does, then I am at a total loss to understand what all the fuss is about.
If this book is anything to go by, the whole "inner game" thing amounts to no more than three or four pretty basic ideas:
1. Self 1 and Self 2. According to Gallwey, Self 2 is your "natural" self, who would do brilliantly in life but for being constantly tripped up by Self 1 - your conscious, judgemental, less able self. According to Gallwey we need to put Self 1 to one side and trust in Self 2.
2. The whole Self 1 / Self 2 business is summed up in the "equation":
P (performance) = p (potential - Self 2) - i (interference - Self 1)
3. After stringing this painfully simple notion out for nearly three-quarters of the book, we get to STOP:
Step back
Think
Organise your thoughts, and
Proceed
This, too, is pretty basic, but it is perfectly true that we often let ourselves get so wound up by events that we really need to go through some simple routine such as this to get everything back in perspective. And if 25 pages seems rather a lot to explain such a simple idea, at least's a lot less than the 137 pages devoted to "P=p-i"!
4. The last idea, which Gallway calls "thinking like a CEO", belongs in the same category as "discussing chakra's in the boardroom". The author apparently wants us (the CEOs) to believe that we each metaphorically divide ourself (hereinafter known as "the corporation")into "shares" which we then trade off with our spouse, our children, our parents. our teachers and just about anyone else that wanders through our lives.
Most of us, if I understand the metaphor correctly, have traded our entire corporation away and therefore can have no control over our life until we've re-acquired a substantial part of those shares. Indeed, there's even a sample "CEO Exercise Worksheet" for you to fill in with details like "What is your Mission Statement?", "What is your primary Product?" and ...
No, this is too ridiculous for words. Let's move on.
About the only useful material in the book is in Chapter 9 - Coaching. Although it's a comparatively long chapter (37 pages), and whilst some of the ideas therein are pretty dodgy, it does at least raise various topics that are worth thinking about for anyone engaged in coaching or self-coaching.
My problem, then, is why bother with a book of 226 pages (main text), just to get a few intellectual nudges in the last quarter of the book?
And I can't think of a single good reason.
Far better, in my estimation to go for John Whitmore's "Coaching for Performance", recently re-released in a new edition.
Whitmore's own work as a coach and trainer of coaches is supposedly based on Gallwey's original ideas. But a comparison of these two books suggests that the pupil has long since overtaken the "master".
The book is a pleasure to read and at the same time it manages to challenge some of my most engrained ideas and concepts about "work".
The last chapter is a gem. Tim Gallwey asks poignant questions, one after the other, relentlessly. Putting the book down left me with so many excellent questions that I did not have the insight (or the courage) to ask myself on my own. The answer to these questions is a life's work.
The first step in finding answers is to ask the right questions. Tim Gallwey does just that, asking the "Whys?" in a courageous, dignified and inspirational way. Highly recommended for people that want to know more about themselves and are open to a different insight to the meaning of Work, Life and Enjoyment.
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The personal stories that illustrate the book's strategies help you connect more deeply with the material. You may even get a chuckle or two from some of these.
What I get from the book is that we all have inner resources that we've hidden from ourselves, and that we can learn to tap these resources with a bit of work and AWARENESS.
This book could actually help in lots of areas besides making music. If you like motivational books, such as those by Tony Robbins, or books on NLP, this book might actually seem tame in comparison, but still relevant.
Well, these principles are not limited to the game of tennis, but wholly applicable to any challenge in life, from playing music to forming good relationships to whatever. Along comes a musician who recognizes this, teams up with the original author and writes a miraculous book for the musicians of the world. I doubt if there are many musicians who could not benefit from the information in this book.
Why should you improve your inner game? The book gives a great example... think of something that is easy for you to play, something you can play well every time. Now picture yourself thrust down onto the stage of Carnegie Hall in front of a packed house that expects you to play something brilliant. Do you think your nerves might get in the way of playing this simple little piece to your potential? If so, then you probably need this book. If not, you are a master already and I wonder why you are wasting your time reading this!
Remember that your skills, no matter what level, are considered part of your "outer game." These skills are particular to you, your physical limitations, your instrument, and your instrument's limitations. This book focuses on the inner game, which is universal. By universal, I mean the inner game is not even specific to music, but applies to any challenge. By using language, stories, and metaphors that are familiar to musicians, the book can help you improve your musical inner game, but there's no reason it should stop there.
The Inner Game of Music does an ingenious job of simplifying the psychology and spirituality of playing music into something practical by putting aside debatable beliefs about ego, id, subconscious, conscious, etc, and focusing simply on whether you are playing your inner game or losing it.
An example from my life... I have been studying with a master jazz guitarist for a couple of years. At times when I practice, I find myself playing a good inner game, very relaxed, playing from the heart, amazed at the notes I hear. I find that when you play a good inner game, you feel more like an observer than a participant. Well, when I sit down with my teacher, I become aware of his mastery. My own nervousness and desire to play well for him quite often cause enough interference to make me play well below my ability. Since reading this book, I have found that more often I can really relax with him, stretch out and really play to the best of my ability, often surprising us both. I find myself coming further in my limited practice time and playing better in unfamiliar situations. It is all about the inner game!
If you ever get the chance visit his web site www.innergameofmusic.com or attend one of his blockbuster workshops.
I CAN"T WAIT TO READ HIS NEXT BOOK!!!!
While my score has not improved yet, I am beginning to enjoy my swings and putts better. Hopefully, I can do what the author did - play only once a week and still break 80.
Good read if techniques are getting you nowhere in your game.
Here's an example. In the traditional approach to playing the game, the golfer watches the flight of the ball after contact and deduces from it how he must have swung. From that information he makes mechanical corrections that are applied to the next swing. In the Inner Game approach, the golfer does not watch, but feels the flight of the ball after contact. From this feedback the subconscious mind automatically makes corrections that are applied to subsequent shots. For me, the former approach has always led to frustration. Driving range corrections always fall apart after 3 holes on the course, and mechanical analyses lead to doubt. But with the Inner Game approach, my swing gets stronger thru the round, and I hit with greater and greater confidence as the round progresses. It is often a confident feeling that I carry with me for many hours after leaving the course. In that respect, a round of golf early in the morning is, like meditation, a conditioner for the daily activities that follow.
This updated version of "The Inner Game of Golf" is a substantial revision of the original, and owners of the 1981 edition may well want to consider buying the update. While several sections remain untouched, there is fresh material inserted throughout as well as a couple of completely new chapters. But the most significant revision is one of tone. Gone is the enthusiastic arrogance of the original which aggressively promoted the Inner Game approach as superior to traditional teaching methods. Indeed, the 1981 version flatly stated that Inner Game techniques should not be used in conjunction with traditional methods. While this tone may have helped elevate the book to its cult status, it ultimately turned off the serious golfing community to the point where the author's name is rarely mentioned by traditional golf instructors. In the revision, the author changes direction completely and now says that the inner game approach should be merged with traditional instruction to create a new, synthesized approach to learning. He even offers a few techniques for achieving such a synthesis.
But, what hasn't changed is the author's central thesis that it is the golfer's understanding of why he plays the game that leads to both success with the sport and contentment as a result of it. The reader who understands and accepts this fundamental concept will find himself transformed in a way he would never have predicted from a mere golf book.
Having just read Mr. Gallwey's excellent book, The Inner Game of Work, I could immediately sense that he was on to something with regard to his concept of paying attention to critical features of your activities as a way to learn how to improve rapidly. That's a point that we stress in The Irresistible Growth Enterprise and The 2,000 Percent Solution.
As an example of this point, I had stopped taking lessons over the last year-and-a-half, and my tee shots and fairway woods greatly improved. The main thing I noticed is that I began to rely on myself to figure out what I was doing wrong, rather than waiting to have my pro show me. As a result, I figured out a lot of long-term faults never unearthed in the lessons and corrected them.
I was very excited to find a number of other drills I could use in this fine book to locate other faults and correct them. Just thinking about the drills allowed me to locate four faults that I had not been aware of before. I can hardly wait to see how I hit the ball tomorrow!
One of the places where my game started to get better was when I noticed that if I played with no focus on winning or score I played much better. Mr. Gallwey provides several tools for extending that psychology that I intend to use as well.
Some people had taught me other ways to keep score: How many putts, how many fairways and greens in regulation, quota points, and square shots. Mr. Gallwey's book adds learning and enjoyment scores as well. I think those will add a lot to my game, as well. It helps to be given permission to think about something other than the gross score.
Mr. Gallwey unerringly describes every harmful mental process I use to hit poor shots, deny myself fun and learning, and to make myself miserable. Even if my golf doesn't get any better (and I would be surprised if that happened), this book will add a lot to my enjoyment of golf and life.
If you don't already understand the key elements of the swing, it may be that this book will not help you as much. If you are a long-term golfer who has taken a lot of lessons, watches good players, and wants to get more out of your game, this book is a great use of your time and money.
I also recommend Dave Pelz's new book, Dave Pelz's Putting Bible. Mr. Pelz does a great job of combining physical, technique and mental processes to help your putting. I realized from The Inner Game of Golf that some of what I learned from Pelz's short game school that works for me relies on tools that Mr. Gallwey speaks about in this book. That gave me more confidence to try out Mr. Gallwey's suggestions.
Hit 'em all like you'd like to!
Donald Mitchell
Coauthor of The Irresistible Growth Enterprise (available in August 2000) and The 2,000 Percent Solution
(donmitch@fastforward400.com)
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I bought this book primarily because I have a business interest in coaching, and most books that I read made some reference, however fleeting, to Gallwey's work.
Surely, I thought, the guy must have something pretty fundamental to say about the art of coaching. And surely the latest book must have the most up-to-date synthesis of the author's ideas.
Well, if it does, then I am at a total loss to understand what all the fuss is about.
If this book is anything to go by, the whole "inner game" thing amounts to no more than three or four pretty basic ideas:
1. Self 1 and Self 2. According to Gallwey, Self 2 is your "natural" self, who would do brilliantly in life but for being constantly tripped up by Self 1 - your conscious, judgemental, less able self. According to Gallwey we need to put Self 1 to one side and trust in Self 2.
2. The whole Self 1 / Self 2 business is summed up in the "equation":
P (performance) = p (potential - Self 2) - i (interference - Self 1)
3. After stringing this painfully simple notion out for nearly three-quarters of the book, we get to STOP:
Step back
Think
Organise your thoughts, and
Proceed
This, too, is pretty basic, but it is perfectly true that we often let ourselves get so wound up by events that we really need to go through some simple routine such as this to get everything back in perspective. And if 25 pages seems rather a lot to explain such a simple idea, at least's a lot less than the 137 pages devoted to "P=p-i"!
4. The last idea, which Gallway calls "thinking like a CEO", belongs in the same category as "discussing chakra's in the boardroom". The author apparently wants us (the CEOs) to believe that we each metaphorically divide ourself (hereinafter known as "the corporation")into "shares" which we then trade off with our spouse, our children, our parents. our teachers and just about anyone else that wanders through our lives.
Most of us, if I understand the metaphor correctly, have traded our entire corporation away and therefore can have no control over our life until we've re-acquired a substantial part of those shares. Indeed, there's even a sample "CEO Exercise Worksheet" for you to fill in with details like "What is your Mission Statement?", "What is your primary Product?" and ...
No, this is too ridiculous for words. Let's move on.
About the only useful material in the book is in Chapter 9 - Coaching. Although it's a comparatively long chapter (37 pages), and whilst some of the ideas therein are pretty dodgy, it does at least raise various topics that are worth thinking about for anyone engaged in coaching or self-coaching.
My problem, then, is why bother with a book of 226 pages (main text), just to get a few intellectual nudges in the last quarter of the book?
And I can't think of a single good reason.
Far better, in my estimation to go for John Whitmore's "Coaching for Performance", recently re-released in a new edition.
Whitmore's own work as a coach and trainer of coaches is supposedly based on Gallwey's original ideas. But a comparison of these two books suggests that the pupil has long since overtaken the "master".
If you have had a bad manager... or if you want to be a good one... this book will encouage you toward motivating yourself and others in a way that will actually work.
The book's genius is in its observation about human beings, their work, and their motivational patterns. Through paying closer attention to the internal state of the worker and to the details of the job, the author brings the work into sharper focus. He advocates that workers also choose to notice details about their jobs; in this greater level of awareness, they can make better choices about the work... and can get past layers of defensiveness or fear in order to do better (more enjoyable!) work.
Not every chapter will speak to you, and not every concept will be just what you need. But I would bet money that somewhere in this book you will find a gem of insight into yourself or others you work with... and if you follow that insight, it will be worth the price of the book.
This book helped me sort out the logic behind my "good days" and "bad days" so I could make more of my days good. I sometimes struggle with being content with my job, and this book is giving me tools to use to enjoy my job more!
PS - I'm not the only one who thought this book was worthwhile. Go to the other edition of the book for more reviews.
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Discovering who I am as a skier (and what my fears, my doubts, my anxieties look like) have exploded this sport for me. This book works on the emotional, intellectual and physical levels - I use the discovery tools on myself, and with my students, and get incredible results.
Even if you don't ski, this book is great - I've used some of his approaches in many areas of my life. They're fun, they're doable, and they help me focus on what's really there, not what I imagine. And beyond that, they open up incredible opportunities to play, explore and have a great time on the slopes or off.
The earlier edition of the book poo-pood technique - I don't agree with that, and my sense is the book took a bit of a hit for that. There's things to learn about skiing, and taking lessons from a great instructor will make a huge difference whether it's your first day or you've been at it for decades. Nonetheless, I recommend this as book #1 for anyone who wants to ski, or who wants something more from their skiing. ANd for the instructors out there - read it!