I've always considered myself to be very understanding of women, especially women of the same stature and situation as the female characters of the book, but the book did expand my understanding of their condition. When I read the book I saw my mother who grew up in South Africa under situations similar to Tambu's. Although Tambu manages to rise from her condition with something on her hands, an education that is, most of these women get cought on the situation and they never escape it. I could relate to the book because I've seen how women are expected to conform to a male dominated community where they are not expected to question the men in their lives. As I've lived and am still living in modern South Africa for my whole 19 years I've seen and still see the Nyasha's that have to deal with the same men as in the book and still expected to be modern women. I found the book to be very true of the African women's situation and saw a reflection of somebody I know in Jeremiah. Here is a man who had to live in his brothers shadow for all his life. He is poor and lazy, and the only thing that he knows he has control over are the women in his life. I am not trying to sympathise with the character but his situation on the book should be understood. As a modern African man I've learnt to treat women as equals and although that may be there still exist a group of men who can't handle the truth. Tis book will help a lot of people in understanding how women, especially in rural communities, had to live and still live in Southern Africa. A powerful book and a great asset to African literature!

I think the other reviewers have covered everything that needs to be said about this novel - and quite well I might add. After having the novel on my bookshelf for 2 years, I finally got a chance to read it over the Christmas holiday - I regret that I waited so long. I was so touched by this story. I wasn't sure if I would be able to relate to the characters at all, because their world is very different from my own. But I found myself identifying strongly with Nyasha (sorry if I mispelled her name) and by the end of the book I was crying for both her and myself. This book is about (in my opinion) oppression of the self and I think that this is a topic that is accesible to a lot of different people. I think that for young women it is especially salient. This is a quick read and well worth any time that you spend on it - I highly recommend it.

"I was not sorry when my brother died." Who would want their brother to die or even feel that way about a sibling? Tsitsi Dangarembga starts "Nervous Conditions" that way to catch the attention of her readers, and she did a fine job in catching mine. All the characters of this novel have determination and overcome difficult obstacles. Babamukuru is the uncle in the novel who is an inspiration for his niece, Tambudzai. She admires him: "Babamukuru, I knew, was different. He hadn't cringed under the weight of his poverty. Boldly, Babamukuru had defied it." Tambudzai bases her decision to go to school on the fact that her uncle has come to be someone everyone admires and trusts. She not only proves to her family that she can get an education, but she proves to herself that she can get out of the pool of poverty and ignorance. She begins her mission to raise money for school after she convinces her father to give her a plot of land to plant her own crops. Dangarembga describes in her book the work that Tambudzai puts into her field. "By the time the sun rose I was in my field, in the first days hoeing and clearing; then digging holes thirty inches apart, with a single swing of the hoe, as we had been taught in our gardaen periods at school; then dropping the seeds into them, two or three at a time, and covering them with one or two sweeps of my foot; then waiting for the seeds to germinate and cultivating and waiting for the weeds to grow and cultivating again." Her brother, on the other hand, receives the opportunity to get an education without having to work. Unfortunately, because of health difficulties he dies, and as a result she gets the opportunity to prove to her uncle that she is capable of achieving in school as well as in life. Moving to the mission gives her the chance to learn about her uncle's family as well as learning to adapt to different environment that is beyond where she comes from. Learning that not all families are perfect, she is faced with her cousin's eating disorder and the fact that her uncle will not tolerate any of his children to rebel against him or do anything to give his family a gad name. He hits his own daughter because he does not stand for her to raise her voice. "Babamukuru, gathering himself within himself so that his whole weight was behind the blow he dealt Nyasha's face. 'Never,' he hissed. 'Never,' he repeated, striking her other cheek with the back of his hand, 'speak to me like that.'" Such conflict within a family she admired was hard for Tambudzai to deal with or understand. In reading "Nervous Conditions," I have come to understand that cultures may be different but at the same time similar. There were instances that I felt I understood what characters were feeling for a minute. Take for example when Tambudzai felt no one had confidence in her and in what she was doing for herself. Having no one believe in you can encourage you to do more for yourself. That's what having self-confidence is all about. I felt that Tambudzai demostrated that through out the book as she was faced with many obstacles she eventually overcame. I recommend this book to anyone who loves to read or does not like to read. It grabs your attention in the beginning and takes you along on every adventure the characters surpass.