This book, like all of the books in the series, is written from the pet's point of view. Max the dog observes all different types of situations that cause his owner, Maria, to feel mad. He also cautions against certain reactions, and then gives page after page of possible ideas kids can try when they're feeling angry. Each page allows easy discussion to develop between you and the child, in which you can bring in details and examples from your child's life. I have read this book to preschool classrooms and in therapy with young children, with great response. The illustrations are super--the children can "read" it back to me after hearing it, just by following the illustrations. It's just the right length,too. Not too short to be useless, and not so long as to lose the child's interest,

I found this book and the whole "Let's Talk About" series an excellent way to teach my daughter (2 1/2 y.o.) how to express her feelings. I like the fact that the characters are real kids, not silly animals or Disney characters. The drawings are great for showing kids how to express anger, their confusion about feelings, and how to feel better afterwards. It's definitely worked wonders for my daughter.

This book is a great way to teach kids when it is appropriate to say "no" and when it is not. For instance, if your friend wants to trade dolls with you, and don't want to trade, it is okay to say "no." When someone tries to convince you to do something you know is wrong, is it okay to say "no." But it is not right to say "no" if it is a lie (e.g. "did you break this vase?") or when your mother asks you to do something that will prevent you from getting hurt or damaging property. It also teaches about saying "no" politely when you don't want to do something, such as play with a friend. We often think of "no" as a negetive word, but this book reminds us all - adults and kids alike - that sometimes saying "no" is the wise thing to do.

this was a greast boook for every age. this book has helped me a lot. i would like to say thank you to the person who wrote it

Step by Step instructions for kids to help them negotiate an allowance, and follow through by doing the chores. It includes chart suggestions, and allowance amount suggestions. Cute cartoons make the lessons more fun!

Step by Step instructions on correspondence for kids (letters, Thank You notes, etc.) Cute cartoons make the instruction less "painful!"

5/22/03 The book " Needing Attention"(copyright 1996) explains to the child(ren) why they might feel the need to get attention;reviews the wrong ways they might do so(e.g. complaining,tattling,teasing) and the right ways to get attention without actually saying the words "I'd like some attention".Some of the others(now out of print by Berry from the "Help Me Be Good Series"copyright 1988) use the same method in helping the child(ren) to understand ways to correct such habits as individual books on Tattling,Lying,Interrupting,Throwing Tantrums,Teasing,Fighting,Breaking Promises,Being Bossy,Being Bullied..There are more to the out-of print series which can sometimes "show-up" at community flea markets as did the ones I purchased.

This is an excellent book.
Buy it before it goes out of print! I have two books in this series and would like to purchase more but they are OUT OF PRINT.
This is one of the few books that teaches children about developing good character traits without being preachy or condescending (or resorting to "fairy tales" - - things that happened in a faraway place and time which have no bearing on today). The children can relate and they enjoy the stories.

i wish to find the set of books written by joy w berry in the eighties. they were in hardback and colored adeep pinkcolor.they all started with the words lets talk about... feeling sad, disobeying, gossiping, being a bully, stealing, etc.

This is one book in a collection of "how to" type books for children. I read this book as a child, and now as a mother, would love to use it as a reference for teaching my own children. Each step in the process of cleaning a bedroom is clearly spelled out. The pictures use humor to maintain plenty of interest. I highly recommend it to other parents, or kids with basic reading skills!

This has got to be one of the best books from one of the best series I ever purchased. My son, who has ADHD, used to sit clueless in the middle of his totally chaotic room and not even know where to start. While I tried many times to explain to him how to clean his room, and modeled/helped him, he never seemed to get it. We got a copy of this book, and worked with him using it once. He used it himself afterwards, and now at 17 he still cleans his room using the steps given!! This book was a life-saver (his that is!!)

This book taught me about stepfamilies. This book had stuff that doesn't happen in my life but it was interesting anyway. This books teaches kids that there's different rules in different houses. I learned that some people can be different than you think they are. Even if you meet someone and think you might not like her, you might end up liking her.

This book didn't work as well as my parents wanted it to(my room gets messy), but it has been over 12 years since they gave it to me and I still use it for reference sometimes. The book and series do a great job of opening communication between you and adults. They give kids a place to start and a laugh (great pictures) at the same time. Every thing is friendly and lets you understand why your parents are upset about the dump your room is, encouraging you to keep it clean. It gave me a structure. I still start cleaning by making my bed. The book talks about doing laundry, too. Clearly laid out directions on what to do and where to go next keep you going.

I love this book on Let's Talk About Feeling Sad on the Let's talk about series by Joy Berry & I like this book on Feeling Sad because I get sad sometimes & this book helps me get better.

I love this book!

This books teaches about the many reasons why kids sometimes feel sad, such as leaving some place where they are having fun, or mourning a pet's death. Then it shows some ways to feel better, such talking with others or getting involved in another activity. The book emphasizes that it is okay to be sad, but there are ways of feeling better when we are ready.