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But the book is much more than a connection of Readers' Digest anecdotes strung together. Ms. Doss reveals, through deft and honest touches, her own weaknesses and struggles, her impetuosity and her grit. She communicates with power the pain that can come in so many different ways to a woman with a tremendous need to love, especially when obstacles - infertility, unreasonable adoption agencies, poverty - rise up to keep her from satisfying that need. And the portrait of her husband Carl, who changes as much as the children do, is vivid and telling. The Carl who says, "Let's take 'em all" at the end of the book is a very different Carl from the one who agrees to the first adoption largely to humor his wife and to keep her from moping weepily and endlessly about the house, and whose annual refrain for many years is, "This is the last one!" You expect him to come on board, of course; but his path is a bit surprising and most revealing of the essence of the man. In particular his ability to close ranks against outside inteference shows the degree to which his love for his family is as strong as his wife's, however differently it might be expressed.
As a family memoir alone, it would be a classic. But because the children were of mixed racial ancestry - in the 'forties and 'fifties - the Doss family became an unwilling catalyst for the ignorance and prejudice of the time. It is part of the Doss magic that the love in the family was strong enough to triumph over the unpleasant incidents, so that those incidents enriched, rather than poisoned, the Doss childhoods. (Not that this made them less unpleasant, of course.)
The book is never preachy. Nevertheless, it is a vivid documentary of how racism was built into the attitudes of even "nice" people of that time. It is a sermon of a kind, a sermon lived out in the lives of the Doss family. It is a primer on how to overcome evil with good, a standing lesson to a nation still struggling with racial resentment.
But the genuinely remarkable thing is that, despite the frequent intrusions suffered by the family from racially prejudiced outsiders, the book is not about race. No doubt this is because the Doss family was never about race. When the book crosses your mind in the days after you've closed it - and it will, frequently - it will not be as a book about race. It will be as a book about a uniquely special family and about the triumph of love and joy and grace and laughter over whatever might vainly try to overcome them.
Unlike the previous reviewer, I don't think the book is all that objective at times, and I think there's quite a lot of moralizing. Parts of the chapter on "subverting" female choice seemed to me to be particularly noxious. At least Batten has it right that rape (among humans) is about male powerlessless rather than male power (as we've been hearing from feminists for so long). On the other hand, she seems to buy into the fact that it's about power and not reproduction, which seems curious. Just one example of what I thought were contradictions left unresolved. Another: are males in favor of infanticide, or do the right-to-lifer's show they're against it? I could go on...
It's a common and not entirely unjustifiable complaint about this genre of science (or pseudo-science, depending on ones persuasion) that it merely reflects cultural biases and current fads in thinking. That women control the economy of eros (reproduction) is not exactly a new idea, thought the author makes it sound like this is something revolutionary. That men quite often cooperate with women in this regard perhaps isn't given enough credence here (there's an undertone that females are entitled to their choice...), thus illuminating another critique of this kind of book, namely that it reduces humans to being mere animals. We all like to believe that there is some difference, whether it be in intelligence or the ability to conceptualize the future or some other intangible. The unspoken assumption in sociobiology is that certain things are universal by virtue of their being biological, which I think is debatable.
Still, Batten's book is certain to both entertain and educate the average reader. She has a unique angle on the topic in her choice of objective things to relate and it's refreshing to hear certain sacred cows taken on and sometimes debunked. Even discussing them is an improvement compared to what passes for debate in the marketplace of ideas these days, so I hope I'm not making the book sound worse than it is.
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