The heart of the book is 366 "daily reflections". Based on the Five Pillars, Bailey's reflections are simple (but not easy) lessons for examining the way in which we conduct ourselves. Each serves as a guidepost for achieving personal, team, or organizational improvement. The lessons are effective, common- sense messages; they are an improvement on other "self-help" publications in that they offer straightforward solutions to fundamental problems. They are proof that a book need not be difficult or prolonged to be very, very successful.
The book makes no promises. It only offers a recipe of sorts for what we all want: a better existence. It will challenge you to explore your behavior and define your beliefs. It will be a really good resource for managers and executives; probably a better tool for Mom and Dad.
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The raid, and the subsequent trial, resulted in a prison sentence for Cynthia, but it also brought her into the headlines. Payne's charming frankness, ready wit, and out-spoken attitude towards sex both entertained and shocked. Bailey's book explores Cynthia's childhood, her difficult teenage years, her relationships with men, and her career as a prostitute and a brothel madam. Through it all, Cynthia frankly admits her past with a refreshing and unabashed candour.
Cynthia was born in 1932. She was the oldest of two girls, and her father was absent for most of her childhood. Ironically he returned and settled down just before Cynthia's mother died. Cynthia was rarely shown affection by her father, and they clashed constantly. He was openly ashamed of Cynthia and unable to communicate with her with any sort of intimacy. It's really not surprising that Cynthia left home at the first opportunity. She engaged in a series of disastrous relationships with older men who used and abandoned her. Despite all of the terrible hardships experienced by Cynthia, she manages to relate everything with humour and good natured tolerance. Many people would have become bitter, but somehow Cynthia managed to remain almost untouched by the disappointments. Ultimately, I think this is due to the fact that she always understood her lovers--faults included. She accepted them as the flawed human beings they were, and she didn't bear a grudge for all their shortcomings. She accepted everyone--no matter what faults they had, or what quirks they exhibited.
Cynthia's first contact with prostitution came when she was working as a waitress. She was approached by a prostitute who wanted to use Cynthia's room during the daytime, and Cynthia agreed as she collected as much money for one day's rent as she earned waitressing for an entire week. From this modest beginning, she concocted a scheme to sublet rooms and flats to prostitutes. This plan failed when the rents owed to Cynthia went unpaid, and Cynthia found herself facing her landlord without the rent money. He was quite happy to make an alternative arrangement, and so Cynthia became a prostitute--specializing in "the kinky rich" older gentlemen.
The book plots Cynthia's course through her many relationships--including the rather unusual relationship she enjoyed with Retired RAF Squadron Leader Mitchell Smith. One chapter is devoted to letters from various would-be admirers applying for posts in her household. The highly-readable book also contains black and white photos of Cynthia and her many friends.
There are two films about the life of Cynthia Payne. "Wish You Were Here" focuses on her childhood and teenage years, and it really is a marvellous film. There are no references in this film to Cynthia or her later career as a Madam. The second film, "Personal Sevices" details Cynthia's adult life up until the trial for the raided 1978 Christmas Party. Many of the characters in "An English Madam" appear in "Personal Services"--although the names are changed. For further reading, the book, "Sexplicity Yours: The Trial of Cynthia Payne" by Gloria Walker and Lynne Daly details the trial for a 1986 raid on yet another of Cynthia's parties. This newsworthy party was ostensibly thrown to celebrate the filming of "Personal Services"----displacedhuman.
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Anyway, at times this book will jerk a tear, or erupt a laugh. I enjoyed my time with Virgil and wish it could have gone on another 200 pages!
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The great storm scene alone will thunder forever in your memories. You will encounter with Copperfield:
the evil, chilling Uriah Heep,
the mental and physical destruction of his mother by a Puritanical,untilitarian step-father,
the always in-debt Mr. Mawcawber who somehow transcends his economic and egocentric needs into something noble,
the betrayal of Copperfield by his best friend and Copperfield's shattered emotions by this betrayal,
the ruination of another close friend's reputation, and her step-by-step climb back out of the mire,
Copperfield's own passionate step into marriage while too young with an irresponsible, yet innocent child-woman, her death,
Copperfield's own rise from poverty and orphanhood into worldly success but empty life until mature love rescues him.
Dickens has a real gift for creating people that irritate you, yet gradually you come to love them - just like folks in real life. If you never have read Dickens, come meet David Copperfield. You'll find that your impressions of David from the brief snippets by critics, teachers, reviewers, professors and know-it-alls completely different than the Real Thing.
The story is simple enough to start. David's mother marries a man, Murdstone, who makes life hell for her and young David. David has the courage to rebel against the tyrant and is sent off to boarding school and later to a blacking factory. For readers who want to compare childhood rebellion to authority in the movies, Alexander's defiance of the Bishop in Ingmar Bergman's great movie, Fanny and Alexander, is equally dramatic and sad.
David runs away and finds his Aunt Betsey Trotwood, who takes him in and supports him, with a little help from her wise/fool companion Mr. Dick. This is story enough for many novelists, but it is only the beginning for Dickens. David has yet to meet one of the great villains in literature, that "Heap of infamy" Uriah Heep. Uriah's villainy is terrible because it is hidden under a false pretense of humilty and service to others. The final confrontation between Heap and Micawber is one of the great scenes in literature.
None of what I have said answers the question, Why read this book more than once? The most important answer to this question for the nonacademic reader is "for the fun of it." From cover to cover this novel gives so much pleasure that it begs to be read again. We want to revisit David's childhood and his confrontation with the terrible Mr. Murdstone. Mr. Micawber is one of Dickens's great creations and anytime he is part of the action we can expect to be entertained. When we pair Micawber with Heap we have the explosive combination which results in the confrontation mentioned earlier in this review.
These brief examples only scratch the surface of the early 19th century English world Dickens recreates for the reader. Some other of Dickens' novels like Bleak House may be concerned with more serious subjects, but none lay claim to our interest more than Dickens' personal favorite "of all his children," that is, David Copperfield. Turn off the television, pick a comfortable chair, and be prepared to travel along with David Copperfield as he tells us the story of his life.
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Paul Bailey uses the changing faces in the office of prime minister to characterize Japan's internal and external turbulence. Bailey elaborates in great detail about the public shifts in attitude and activism based upon the directions the prime minister in office chose to go.
Paul Bailey concludes that Japan's postwar period is not over because there are too many unresolved feelings about the war that affect the way Japan views the world. The postwar period may have ended at Hirohito's death in January 1989, but old hostilities and feelings resurfaced at the 50th anniversary ceremonies marking the atomic bombings and the surrender. Bailey's book includes a handy outline chronology and a map at the beginning of the book. He suggests further readings, includes an extensive bibliography, translation glossary, and a detailed index. Postwar Japan is excellent reading for those who want to study how sweeping lifestyle, economic and cultural changes in a country can be effected by a single person - General MacArthur. Readers will learn how those changes affect the long-term relationship between the victor and the defeated.
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